Chapter V Human Awakening from Emotion

(4) fatherly love

"Father's love is indispensable in the growth of children. Anyone who is full of humanity and good feelings must have a pair of loving and respectful parents. " 226

In the early days of parenting, breastfeeding is very hard. What should dad do at this time? Li Meijin thinks: "First of all, during lactation, mothers should spend more time taking care of their children, and fathers must be considerate. For example, when a wife is confinement, her husband often has to go to work, so the most considerate way for her is to ask her mother-in-law to take care of her. Because his mother knows better what he needs and likes. Secondly, during lactation, the father can do more powerful things, hold the child to sleep, bathe the child, take pictures of the child, hum songs to him and let him ride around his neck. " 224

"In front of the children, the father should love the mother, because the mother loves the child and the child loves the mother. He saw that his father loved his mother so much that he would love his father. ..... When the wife is taking care of the children, the husband should take care of the wife, and the wife should tell the children that it is very hard for dad to earn money outside. We should also love our father, and the family should form such a circular relationship. " 225

"Fathers should understand that the relationship with children is more about setting an example for children. This example should be the behavior that children can use outside the family in the future ... The father should send such a message to the children-I have power, but I never abuse it. I reason with you, and discussing with you is the best way to solve the problem. " 226

Suhomlinski pointed out in "Parental Pedagogy": "To make all fathers understand that the degree of son's obedience and discipline depends on the strength of father's sense of responsibility. The father is dedicated to the people and loyal to the motherland, which is the pride of the children. They cherish their father's past and present contributions to the people, and cherish his spirit of painstaking efforts for the material and spiritual civilization of the motherland. ..... As the saying goes, a son should have his own roots. The more remarkable his father's contribution to society, the more brilliant his son should be. This glory should be ignited by his father, by his loyalty to lofty social ideals and by the example of realizing these ideals. " 153

Suhomlinski said in a letter to his father in Pravda on June 5, 6543879/KLOC-0: "Father plays a very important role in children's education." "How much children want their father to be a responsible, distinctive and powerful person!" "For children, the father is the most amiable and lovely person." "Parents can use the spark of their loyalty to social ideals and use their own labor to realize this ideal to ignite their children's bright spots." Five volumes, 729 pages

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Attachment: Excerpts from the group discussions the day before yesterday.

Xue Tao:

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