Later, once, his classmates said he was timid, so he went to the Internet cafe with his classmates. But when I got home, I knew I had made a mistake and thought I had gone to the Internet cafe again. He was afraid to face his father and chose to jump off a building in fear. When his father learned the cause and effect, he was heartbroken and regretted it. Many times, improper parental discipline will do more harm to children.
Three to six years old is an important period for the formation of children's character. Parents will benefit greatly from grasping this period and disciplining their children in the right way. Professor Li also pointed out that it is ok to be seven or eight years old, but if a child has been spoiled until he is a teenager, he will probably have a big problem. Parents must take good care of their children when their character is formed and they can't make a loud noise.
Children and parents are crying. They must have their own needs to be met by their parents. But parents can't satisfy their children blindly, otherwise they will keep their children satisfied all the time, and then he can't stand the unsatisfied situation in life. "Young trees can't slide straight without pruning", but educating children can't directly suppress them for no reason. At the age of three to six, parents should say "no" to their children, do nothing, scold him, beat him, make trouble without reason and stay.
Whether the child is playing with parents or grandparents, the parties take the child to a separate and safe place first. Being alone is to make children realize that they have no other reinforcements and can't embarrass their parents. Safety is to ensure that when educating children, if they have some excessive behavior, they will not be hurt.
Scolding children is likely to hurt their self-confidence, or children who are scolded but know there is no real harm will simply ignore it. Therefore, when a child is crying, it is most undesirable to scold the child.
It's worse to hit a child. It is a kind of bullying for an adult to simply threaten a child who has no ability to fight back with violence.
Tell the child directly, "You are not right, you are disturbing everyone.". When a child is emotional, he won't listen. Some children cry louder when you are reasonable.
Parents can't just walk away when the child is crying. Stay with your child, don't beat and scold, don't preach, and quietly watch him vent his emotions. If the child hurts himself during the period, don't worry. A safe environment can protect him from self-harm. If you intervene directly at this time, the child will know that it is your weakness to do so, and will ignore the parents' discipline by self-harm next time.
If the above four things are not done, children will stop crying and observe their parents' faces when they find it useless to cry. At this time, the parents wiped the child's face with a hot towel and asked him if he was still crying. At this time, the child was completely desperate. He knows it's no use crying, and he will listen to his parents' persuasion patiently.
The child's crying is nothing more than trying to satisfy some of his desires. If parents do not operate properly, it is easy to bring psychological harm to children, or encourage children to habitually cry in exchange for what they like. There are two kinds of results, one is excessive discipline, and the other is poor discipline, neither of which is what parents want.
Children's education is related to their future development, so parents must attach importance to it and learn excellent parenting experience.