Of course, it is not easy to do this, because many single mothers have a hard life, and this pain may be passed on to their children, which may affect their physical and mental development.
First of all, a single mother must have a strong heart, which is not only reflected in the upbringing of her children, but also in her attitude towards her life. Because single mothers may face more difficulties than ordinary mothers, the failure of marriage will have negative implications for their own psychology. If you don't have a strong heart to stick to yourself in difficulties, then the life of a single mother will be difficult to be happy. If the mother lives a happy life, the children can also have a happy living environment, otherwise, single-parent families may be shrouded in a tragic atmosphere, which will cast a shadow over their whole childhood. Ignoring the growth environment will also cause many psychological problems for children, and even develop into psychological deficiency. It can be seen that living a good life is also the key to helping children grow psychologically.
Secondly, single mothers should plan and manage their own lives reasonably, whether materially or spiritually, so that their lives are orderly and their children will naturally not be too bad.
Secondly, single mothers should also guide their children to establish a correct view of treating their fathers. You should let your children know that the end of your marriage does not mean that the father and he need to end. On the contrary, they are related by blood and will always be relatives, and their father will love him a lot. You just get along in different ways, hoping to get children's understanding.
If you are particularly tired, you can talk to your child, but don't exaggerate your efforts to your child, which will easily make your child feel guilty and affect his psychological development.