Faced with these problems, I have been thinking. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents can teach him to say the first sentence, or the first lie. The future direction of children depends on their parents' education. Teachers help parents educate their children to complete nine-year compulsory education. Parents should let their children behave first, and then learn to do things. Learning to be a man is more important than getting good grades. Children should be moral, caring, noble and useful to society. First of all, we should create a good family atmosphere and an environment conducive to cultivating children's emotions. This is not a question of whether a family has money, but whether parents can educate. Problem parents will raise problem children, and happy parents will raise happy children. What is cultivated here is a positive and enterprising attitude towards life, a tolerance and care for others, and a force full of confidence in one's future. Secondly, in the process of children's growth, parents should have several kinds of "hearts": (1) love. It is the basis for parents to carry out quality education for their children. It not only shows concern for children's life such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also shows concern for knowing how to be warm and cold. More importantly, it shows concern for children's psychological and spiritual needs. A few days ago, a parent came to talk to me about his son and kept complaining that he was unable to educate his son well. His son is withdrawn, selfish, disobedient, fond of entertaining himself and losing his temper. He said to her from time to time, "My aunt's house is so nice, and my aunt is so kind to my cousin. Sometimes the three of us go around the city." However, as parents, understanding the high living standard of aunt's family, they say: Your aunt's family is good, you are good with others, there are three people in the family, and two people earn money ... God, nagging can only make children rebellious, and children are actually yearning for a harmonious family atmosphere. Think about parents' attitude towards their children, which shows that they lack love and the foundation for implementing quality education. (2) self-confidence. Parents should have confidence in their children and give them confidence. Many parents lack confidence in their children. I have heard some parents say, "If you look at him like that, you can learn what he looks like and come back to the factory to do some work." Don't you know that confidence is the power for parents to implement quality education? Without the source of strength, how can children succeed in their studies and careers? If parents often send negative and pessimistic messages to their children, then children can't have a positive and enterprising attitude. So there are no bad children, only bad parents. Good farmers do not let short crops wither, and good parents do not let poor children feel inferior. I remember in a TV series, a father faced his daughter who was about to go to college. He often sends messages to his children to encourage them and boost their confidence. One of the messages reads: "If you believe you can do it, you can do it yourself." . People say you can do it, so can you. You can do it here, and I can do it here. It was the father who gave his daughter confidence, and her daughter finally successfully completed her college studies and realized her dream! When I went to see my son at school a few days ago, I also wrote these words to my son:' How did you feel about the exam yesterday? I will continue to work hard today! As long as you have a firm belief, don't give up and move on, just like Xu Sanduo in Soldier Assault, you will eventually achieve great things! "After my son saw it, he was full of confidence and his grades improved. (3) Parents should be cautious. Careful is the quality education of parents to their children. Take checking homework at night as an example. Some parents do things carelessly, regardless of whether their children write neatly or not, or whether their children do it correctly or not. Some parents are too busy to take care of their children's studies, not to mention discovering their psychological problems and forming some bad habits. Some parents and couples often quarrel over trifles, and sometimes they separate and divorce. A student wrote in his weekly diary: I am worried and scared every day. If my parents divorce one day, who will I live with? "What a poor child! It is not easy to be so young! What careless parents, why don't they care about their children's feelings, so that his tender and young mind is hurt so much! (4) Educate children to have perseverance. The same is true of educating children. Perseverance is to test the effectiveness of educating children. You can't fish for three days and dry the net for two days. Come to think of it, it takes us a long time to educate our children and we need to persevere. There is a parent who is very persistent in educating his children. She takes her children's homework and thoughts very seriously. In the past three years, I have seen her pick them up on the road from time to time and ask the teacher in the office. (5) The education of children should be strict. Parents should be strict with their children, starting from small things, starting from bit by bit, being strict with teachers and being filial to sticks. Although' fighting' is not advocated, it should be strict. The' strictness' here is not a rude and simple action, which will hurt children's self-esteem. A parent said to me: "Every time a child asks for money, I will give it to him, as small as one yuan, two yuan or five yuan. Gradually, children developed the habit of spending money casually, so that they spent 80% of their money ... "Some parents worry about their children, fearing that doing homework will tire them out and come to school to speak ill of their teachers. What good can such words and deeds do to children? Poor child is so edified? With the rapid development of society, people's quality is gradually improving. I firmly believe that parents and friends present here will also change their ideas, treat their children with correct and scientific educational methods, influence them with great strength-love, educate them with their own "four hearts" and demand their children with strict education!