1, according to the truth, no one is older than anyone, and mom and dad have great responsibilities. Everyone has his own responsibility.

If I have to say who is more responsible, I can only say that my mother is bigger. The premise is a mother who has a basic sense of responsibility, is kind to children and knows basic etiquette and principles. Otherwise, it's better not to.

3. Girls are the future of the motherland. Mother is the future of the motherland. A woman thrives for three generations, and a woman destroys three generations. Generally speaking, mothers are more responsible.

4. Fathers cultivate children's courage, never give up easily when encountering difficulties, and dare to face difficulties.

5. Fathers cultivate children to be strong and encounter setbacks. The more frustrated and brave the role.

6. The principle of a father's upbringing. What can and can't be done. Father's majesty has set a benchmark for children since childhood. 7. Fathers cultivate children's independence, study independently and do things independently. Think independently. If there is any difficulty, if no one helps. Have the courage to stand up independently.

5. The basic rules for fathers to cultivate their children's social survival. The society is black and white, and my father works harder in society. I want to see more clearly, and I want to see more clearly the mother and explain to the children. Society is rich and colorful. This is something that many mothers don't feel or have.

6. Fathers cultivate children's sense of humor and optimism. Usually playing games is crazy, more like a child, and children will be more lively. I will be more optimistic when things happen.

7. Mothers cultivate children's kindness. A kind mother will naturally influence a kind child.

8. Mothers cultivate children's tolerance. Mothers who don't haggle over every ounce can naturally cultivate tolerant children. They don't care about small things, only about big things.

9. Mothers cultivate children's self-discipline and rules. A mother who keeps her house spotless will not raise a child who sleeps until 12 in the summer vacation, drags her feet, her room and bed are in a mess, and the books in her schoolbag are like tattered waste paper.

10, mothers cultivate self-discipline and habits. When I was a child, my mother read every night, and so did my children. When I was young, my mother would do needlework every night, and my children would read quietly. When I was a child, my mother played mahjong every night, and the children probably wouldn't read quietly. When I was a child, my mother cultivated my habits.

1 1. Mothers cultivate their children's emotional control ability. A mother who quarrels with everyone and complains every day can't cultivate a calm child. A mother who is good at communication and can resolve troubles and emotions. It can also cultivate children's good emotional control ability.

12. Mothers cultivate their children's basic sense of shame.

In the news, a boy induced a little girl to lick * *, and the boy's mother said that the little girl volunteered. (Search the news by yourself) You can imagine, fish begins to stink at the head. A little boy is like a mother.

In the news, a boy touched a girl's PG intentionally or unintentionally. The girl was angry, but the boy and mother beat her up and said you were so ugly. Who touched you?

Both of the above facts show that the mother has cultivated a child without basic sense of shame and morality. It is conceivable that no matter how good his academic performance is, it is useless.

The above is not absolute about what mom and dad cultivate respectively. The best family is strict father's loving mother. Strict father should be kind and loving mother should be strict.

Generally speaking, in a family, one parent is dragging its feet, which will inevitably affect the cultivation of children.

Therefore, marriage is very important.

What about your next generation? The high probability has been decided from the wedding day.

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Parents are the children's first teachers, and parents are the closest and longest people in their children's life.

I think it is the responsibility of parents to educate their families. Only a two-pronged education can ensure that their children live an ordinary life. Without hard work, an ordinary life is hard to have. Parents must keep their eyes on the principle of children's learning, not the principle. Parents can respect their own wishes and make their own choices. The scope for parents to supervise and respect their children is limited.

1. Parents supervise their children's education. Many times, parents are worried that their children will delay their studies and are afraid that their children will not absorb enough knowledge. They can't let their children drift, so they should do their homework in a down-to-earth manner no matter what state they are in.

Even if the child is reluctant, it is all written on his face. Don't let children play with themselves blindly. He may not have written well when he was a child. Instead, he should accumulate a little every day and keep good study habits. After all, if children are lax, they will be out of control.

Most parents just think that children only need to study, but if parents review and assess their children in a targeted manner, they can specifically identify weak knowledge points and then sort them out, so that children can spend less time on unnecessary learning, effectively improve learning efficiency and reduce reluctance.

Parents sometimes have to let their children relax their nature. According to their actual situation, sometimes children have to fly by themselves. This is just a moment to relax after studying. There is not a child who doesn't like to play. The key is that parents should know how to control their time. Parents should make plans for their children's future before they are underage, and sometimes parents will treat their children very severely.

3. Let children become self-responsible, let children fall in love with learning, know the importance of learning, and set a goal for themselves from an early age. It is not that parents force their children to study, but that children find the pleasure of learning and know that learning is responsible for their own future. They are willing to take the initiative to study, they will work hard and their grades will improve.

Summary: There are no children who don't like to play, and no one wants to be strict parents, because they are afraid that their children will not work hard, and the children will in turn regret that their parents were not strict. In family education, sometimes parents will play a cruel role, but also for the future of their children. I hope that through hard work, children can finally live the ordinary life they want. In family education, both parents bear the same responsibility. Just because the conditions are different, the time and space of contact with children are different, and parents have different personalities, parents will play different roles and assume different responsibilities. For example, parents who can scare their children often play the role of "bad police", while gentle people can play the role of "fire fighting". If one of two people works in a foreign country, the responsibility mainly falls on one person's shoulder, but you can also communicate with your child by telephone. Two people can share the guidance of different disciplines according to their personal specialties. Because men and women are different, children can be given psychological counseling according to the actual situation. Father's firmness, boldness and profundity and mother's kindness, consideration and care should complement each other to cultivate children's sound personality.

Therefore, in family education, there should be no cutting hands and doing nothing and handing them over to the other school, which will affect the growth of children. I often find that my children are not big, and my parents don't listen to me and live by temper. This is the imbalance of parental role-playing. In the past, children could only form bad habits.

Parenting parents regardless of autumn colors.

People should receive three kinds of education: family education, school education and social education, and the most important thing for a child is family education at the beginning of his life. Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Family education is the starting point and basic point of educating children. Good family education is a necessary condition for raising children and a catalyst for optimizing children's minds. The quality of family education directly affects their lives.

So when it comes to family education, since it is a family, family members have equally important responsibilities for children's education. It is mentioned in the sacred amethyst that this is not the fault of the godfather. On the surface, the father seems to have a heavy responsibility for the education and growth of his children. In fact, in the process of raising children, the responsibilities of both parents are equally important.

So sometimes, from the outside, parents have different responsibilities. Actually, it's not. It's just that the educational fields of the parents are different. Because mothers often accompany their children, spend a long time with them, have more contact with them, and because mothers have delicate female thoughts, they are easy to get close to them. This determines the field where mothers educate their children. Children need their parents' companionship and education from birth. In the case that children are not fully sensible, the status of mothers is more important. Children's daily habits include eating and sleeping. Get up at normal time, sleep at normal time, eat normally, including the requirement of eating, and don't be partial to food ... all these need to be cultivated by mother. It is precisely because children are young and mothers often accompany them that these daily chores and daily behavior norms are cultivated by mothers. When the child deviates from this daily trivial matter or trivial matter, then the mother will use delicate feelings and the child not to let the child have fear. When children are young, they are used to reading, writing, daily life and playing. This requires mothers to guide and educate their children bit by bit.

When children are older, they have some ability to distinguish right from wrong, and their psychological quality has also become stronger. They can accept failures and setbacks more or less, and have no fear of their parents' education. At this time, the father's responsibility is particularly important.

As a father, on the road of children's growth, we should be strict with love, not blindly strict, nor blindly doting. There is an old saying in China that spoiling a child is like killing a child. Because the child is very young, because his mind is very fragile, and because of the delicate characteristics of women, he has always lived under the love of his mother when he was very young, and when they grow up, his father will appear like a director. It cannot be said that the father is a man here, and the love for children must be strict. As a father's education for children, we should first manage education on the premise of love rather than discipline, so that children can distinguish right from wrong under your discipline, know what is right and wrong, and know how to face prosperity and setbacks. How to get along with classmates and friends? How to be friendly to people? When a child makes a big mistake, as a father, strict words must come first, and at this time, the mother is not so important. The mother at this time is just a foil role. It may be necessary to reflect the equal role of husband and wife here.

The quality, love, ability and correct guidance of the parents of a child's family determine everything about this child. Family is the cornerstone of a child's life. In family education, there is no shortage of mother's love, mother's teaching and guidance, and father's strictness, kindness, persuasion and obedience.

In family education, both parents are guardians of children's growth. It is a crutch for children to grow up, a sail lamp on their way forward, and two growing gardeners, pruning in the sun, so that they can thrive and eventually become useful people to society, caring people and proud parents! Because children are gifted scholars and beautiful women created by their parents.

The father decides the height of the child and the mother decides the width of the child.

Parents, speaking of educating children. No matter how busy and hard you are, please remember that behind an excellent child, there is an excellent family and an excellent family atmosphere.

Family determines a child's life. A good parent and a self-growing parent are the best role models for children! Children who are not carefully trained can only become mediocre people.

Behind the gifted children are a pair of parents who carefully raise their children.

Educating children will always be your most important career.

Please remember your parents! Every child stands on the shoulders of his parents and looks up at the empty stars!

Ross Parker, an expert on the role of father at Harvard University, found that there are two directions for human development: one is intimate relationship, such as kindness, tolerance and cooperation; The second is independence, such as courage, strength and responsibility. Mothers have a natural advantage in cultivating children's intimacy, while fathers have a natural advantage in cultivating children's independence. Therefore, the best family education must be the close cooperation of parents.

Our children say that education cannot be separated from schools, families and society. In our family education, mom and dad are indispensable. Everyone's role and responsibility are irreplaceable. Parents of both sides give their children different education, so that their children can grow up healthily.

On the other hand, there are many problems in most of our family education. Mom monopolizes the power, and dad abandons the shopkeeper, or even stays behind as a single parent. For various reasons, our children do not have a complete and harmonious family education environment, which has caused many children's confusion and troubles in their growth.

Therefore, our parents must join hands with Qi Xin in innovation and participate in the process of children's education and growth.

In family education, both sides attach great importance to it, but it is easy to have differences; Unilateral management, there are few contradictions between husband and wife in education, and children are flawed in growth. Personally, I think that fathers have a great influence on children's personality and mothers have a great influence on children's learning. Usually, if the mother has a certain ability of self-study, the children's academic performance will not be much problem. If a consensus can be reached, it is a good choice for mothers to learn and fathers to cultivate their character. "Tutoring" is not a trivial matter in education, but it is usually easily overlooked. This is a big problem that both parents must participate in and have the same "goal". How to "be a man" is often more important than learning. Otherwise, he may just be a "delicate egoist". Many children with high scores and low abilities only look at patented products at home. What's more, most of these children don't have the ability to "resist pressure". A small setback may "collapse in the front line" and lead to an "extreme" reaction. Even end your own life ... so education is an indispensable responsibility of both parents. As the old saying goes, "If the son doesn't teach, the father is at fault" because ancient times was a "male-dominated" society, but now women's rights are relatively large, and "loving mothers are rebellious", especially boys and housewives. If they are strong, they should pay more attention to "family education" and men must strengthen their "resistance" to their children.

In family education, mom and dad are equally responsible.

If there must be distinction and comparison, then I want to tell you that parents have different responsibilities in education, different division of labor and different contributions. They give children different content, different love and different strength.

Dad's love is broad and deep; What dad brings to children is responsibility, responsibility, courage, perseverance and indomitable spirit.

Motherly love is soft and delicate; Mothers bring enthusiasm, meekness, simplicity and kindness to their children, and weakness is better than strength.

Dad earns money and mom takes care of the family; Dad went out to drive the children crazy, and mom supervised the children's homework at home; Dad leads the children to the shopping mall, and mother teaches them to be diligent and housekeeping; The father teaches his daughter how to get along with the opposite sex, and the mother sets an example for her son's future daughter-in-law.

Dad brings openness to children, and mother brings softness to children; Father teaches children to laugh at the ups and downs of life, and mother teaches children to love themselves.

A child is complete and happy only if he is loved by his parents in different roles and influenced from different angles.

In my opinion, parents have equal responsibilities in family education. They are irreplaceable, but their roles are different and their frequency is different. Why not have Mother's Day and Father's Day? This festival is not in vain.

Let's start with mom

In general families, mothers are mainly responsible for daily eating and living, and spend a long time with their children, which has a great influence on living habits, study habits and social habits.

Especially for children before the age of 6, the mother is basically everything to the child, so everyone thinks that educating the child is the mother's business, and the mother occupies the main task in the process of family education.

Besides, dad

Dad spends relatively little time with his children, but his importance in family education is not a little bit, especially in the influence on children's social outlook, outlook on life, values, behavior habits and thinking habits.

In our China culture, men are the "heads of families" in most families, and men bear the heavy responsibility of supporting their families. Men's vision, mind and way of thinking are different from those of their mothers. Although the frequency of children's education is slightly less, its importance cannot be ignored.

Everything is divided into yin and yang, and people are divided into men and women, which are harmonious and complementary. The same is true of family education. Mom and dad complement each other. Mom is better at cultivating children's habits. Dad is good at shaping values, socializing, personality and other spiritual aspects, so it is equally important!