When Ming Lan's mother died because of Lin Xiaoniang's frame-up, Ming Lan's grandmother chose to take Ming Lan back to her room, and then taught Ming Lan, Ming Lan how to deal with people, and Ming Lan the correct view of marriage. It can be seen that Ming Lan's grandmother is a person who knows right from wrong.

Second, direct education methods.

In the plot, we can see that Granny Sheng talks with Yi Sheng when she knows that her son Yi Sheng is too fond of Lin Xiaoniang, and let Yi Sheng know that the reputation of a family, the rise and fall of a family, has a lot to do with the male owner of a family, not only things outside should be handled well, but also things in her backyard should be handled well.

Because if a family dotes on their concubines too much, it will bring a bad reputation to the family, be arrogant and unfair to their children. Children will have a bad impression on their father when they see him as such. Later, Shengji listened to his mother's words, weighed the pros and cons, and chose to be closer to the first lady.

Third, strict educational methods.

Because in ancient times, women's etiquette was very important, especially for some young ladies of official families, because their words and deeds would represent the image of the whole family. Therefore, in order to let the girls of the Sheng family know the etiquette, the grandmother of the Sheng family invited a regular wet nurse to teach the rules, and treated every girl of the Sheng family equally without mercy. It can be seen that Granny Sheng's family has good intentions for every girl in Sheng's family.