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Reading Notes from Diapers to Dating (Full Edition)
Reading notes from diapers to dating.

? The problem of sex does not begin in adolescence, but stems from whether children have received correct sex education since childhood. This book gives guidance on sex education at all ages.

? This book made me realize that parents can't avoid sex education, and we should establish the concept of sex education from the age of one. Understand ideas and make progress together.

Basement membrane:

A sense that sex education can be carried out anytime and anywhere is implanted in the brain. For example: 1) Don't change diapers for children in public places; 2) Don't drag your child's clothes casually when facing the doctor; 3) Teach children to protect their privacy in the presence of the opposite sex. This subverts the previous misconception that children are too young to understand, and it is necessary to establish a subtle influence to protect children's privacy anytime and anywhere. Children know that things related to sex in public places should be avoided. Improve children's sexual cognition.

Second, communication and guidance.

Let us and children realize that there is no difference between natural phenomena of sex, such as birth, aging, disease and death. This is a natural phenomenon. 1) If you have a natural attitude, it will be natural to talk about the topic. You should take the initiative to talk to your children about your beliefs and values, instead of waiting for them to ask you. 2) When the child asks this question, don't put sugar, let alone cheat the child, otherwise the child will feel mysterious and will seek answers from other bad channels. 3) Listen carefully to children's seemingly vulgar questions. The children are actually very simple and don't know much. Therefore, we should not only discuss it theoretically, but also tell our children some simple truths. 4) According to the age of the child, the same problem is explained according to his age, and what can be understood is the best.

Sex education methods at different ages;

0-2 years old: I think this age should be beyond the imagination of 99% of our parents. The sex education that should be done at this age is: the cognition of sex education does not need to be explained, but the behavior should be consciously shaped for the child, although it seems that he knows nothing, such as changing diapers and going to the toilet, and pay attention to avoiding bringing the same sex into the toilet in public places.

2-5 years old: The content of sex education is not only to understand sexual organs, but also to protect privacy. Don't think children are too young. Be sure to strengthen some situational exercises with him, especially how to make the right choice and ask for help urgently without family care. Give the child some knowledge to correctly explain the birth and growth process, and let him have a correct understanding of friendship and parents' feelings.

5-8 years old: the content of sex education is mainly based on the ability to make decisions by yourself, and it cannot be completely dependent on parents. When children are asked about sex, they can't avoid it. They should be correctly explained. Encourage children's friendship to be based on honest understanding. Friends should not demand anything from themselves, and try to avoid misleading film and television works in media contact.

Elementary school, junior high school and senior high school: sex education, sharing your experiences with children, sex education, active explanation, understanding that children's correct treatment of menstruation or nocturnal emission is a sign of maturity, and teaching children more and more comprehensive knowledge. We should establish a firm belief for ta: parents are the most powerful backing pillar of ta. When ta has any problems and difficulties, you must ask your parents for help.

? Finally, let all our parents take sex education seriously, because we are influenced by traditional culture and sex education is taboo. This book makes me understand that children's sex education begins from birth, and many tragic cases in life are mostly caused by our parents' failure to educate their children about sex. In order to make children grow up healthily, we should treat sexual knowledge correctly with an open mind and understand that it is only one of many disciplines and a natural law of human growth and development. Only by correctly recognizing our views can children learn and understand through formal channels and avoid adverse consequences or even lifelong regret caused by ignorance of this knowledge.