A few days ago, a father in Dalian became popular online because of the video of invigilating his daughter during the epidemic.
In the video, dad carefully opened the sealed test paper and solemnly warned his daughter not to whisper to the invigilator. His gestures were gentle and serious, and his father instantly became an invigilator.
The father told the interviewer that the school held a unified exam on June 7, 65438, and let the children take the exam at home during the epidemic.
Although it is a home test, the child is only in the fourth grade, but according to the school procedures, including the test time, the requirements for the child, according to the previous rules.
You can't let your child relax about the exam just because he is at home, so you can develop good habits.
I have to say that this father has good intentions and has such a sense of ceremony. He wants his children to know the rules and importance of exams, and he wants them to take every exam seriously.
It is the responsibility of parents to let children form a good sense of rules from an early age. The sooner you make rules, the less detours you will take on your growth path and the better you will be.
On the other hand, in life, many parents are "flouting the rules" and even breaking the rules with their children in order to take shortcuts or even make it convenient.
What they seem to be brilliant is actually brewing a tragedy.
Not long ago, a thrilling scene was staged at the intersection of Xincheng Avenue at Qiaotou, Yongjia and Rentian.
A woman with her child was riding an electric bicycle in a hurry on the road. The red light was on at the intersection ahead, but she didn't stop until she hit a straight car.
In the traffic, the woman fell to the ground with the car and the children in the back seat also fell to the ground. What is even more thrilling is that the woman is less than half a meter away from the wheel that has been run over by her.
This scene is so distressing that I can't help asking, is this mother really crazy and dare to run a red light like this with her children?
A netizen said in the comment section that she was educating her children that they would be hit if they ran a red light.
This comment is very heartfelt. I often see such a scene on the roadside:
Parents dragged their children through the red light and ran with them, saying it was too late.
I'm afraid I won't get a seat if others don't queue up to get on the bus.
Parents who have no fear of the rules not only add trouble to others, but also put themselves in danger, which makes the children around them have great psychological pressure and even bring inevitable disasters.
Venus faces some unruly people. She taught her children. In the future, when she meets unruly people, there is no need to argue with them. Let them leave forever, because our days are long.
Yes, because people who don't obey the rules may come to an end one day.
Recently, a news that a 16-year-old boy bit a policeman rushed to the hot search.
In Shenyang, Liaoning, a boy cut in line on the grounds of getting an ID card for his mother. The boy was unconvinced after being stopped by the staff. He not only kicked the policeman on duty with his ankle, but also bit his finger.
The staff subdued the boy on the spot. After being subdued, the boy kept insulting the police and his language was unbearable.
The boy's behavior caused an uproar on the Internet. Many netizens said that they are all 16 years old and still don't understand the rules. Society is not your mother and will not spoil you.
Yes, I don't know how his parents will feel when they see it, but today's children are unruly, and I don't know what they will be like when they grow up.
Baldwin, an American black writer, once said:
"Children will never listen to adults, but they will certainly imitate adults."
We often see parents who regard the rules as nothing in public everywhere:
When the supermarket checks out, parents lead their children to cut in line;
When crossing the road, they took the chance of "the car didn't dare to hit me anyway" and took their children to violate traffic rules;
In the zoo, it is clear that the breeder has told me many times that it is forbidden to feed small animals privately, but parents always disagree, resulting in the child's fingers being bitten off and so on.
In a society where rules are ignored and trampled, everyone is an accomplice to connivance and a victim.
There is a saying in the Silver Soul that freedom is not lawlessness, but living according to its own rules.
The best freedom is to guide children to obey the rules.
Parents don't obey the rules, their children's lives have no standards, and it is difficult to have a happy life.
I have seen such a video and I am deeply impressed so far.
There is a five-or six-year-old boy who has 20 minutes to play with the tablet every day, but when the time comes, his father wants the tablet back.
He said reluctantly, "You have rules every day. It's disgusting. I want to be free. "
Dad said, "All right!" That time, the boy played happily for a long time.
As a result, the boy got up late the next day and complained that his father didn't wake him up. His father said gently and firmly, don't you want to be free? Why should I wake you up?
The boy was speechless and had to bow his head and leave.
On weekends, the child told his father that he was going to play in the playground. They have the following conversation:
"Yes, you are free. You can go if you want. "
"Then can you give me money?"
"Taking a taxi is the rule of this world. You can tell the taxi driver that you are free and you can go wherever you want! Where must the driver take you? "
"Taxi drivers are not fools!"
"So behave yourself! Remember, son, people who don't obey the rules and keep their promises in this world will eventually be severely punished by this world! "
"Dad, I was wrong. Still follow the previous rules! " The boy bowed his head and admitted his mistake.
Wise parents know that they will keep their word in front of their children.
When they ask their children, they will set an example and let them know the importance and destructiveness of "rules" with actions.
In front of the rules, parents must adhere to them gently. When parents adhere to the principle, they should treat their children with peace and respect, instead of suppressing them as adults, let alone criticizing and insulting them.
Parents' best love for their children is not to take the lead in making mistakes, nor to spoil without a bottom line, but to establish a sense of rules for their children from an early age.
Help children establish a sense of rules, parents will remain in awe of the rules, and children will abide by the rules.
Speaking of Guan Xiaotong, a popular Hua Dan, many people praised her for her graceful demeanor and decent manners. In fact, this is inseparable from her family education when she was a child.
In a program, she said that her parents had set many rules for her since she was a child.
For example, you can't lick your mouth while eating; When serving the guests, can't you say you want more rice? Instead, you should ask the other person, do you need more rice?
When the elders haven't picked up chopsticks, the younger generation should never move chopsticks first.
This is how children with good family education and rules are brought up.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If children want to learn to be sensible and polite, they should not only tell the truth to their children, but also set a qualified example for them.
Let children and parents practice these truths together, and these truths can become the most profound qualities in children's hearts.
The famous psychologist william james once said:
"Sow the next action and you will get a habit; Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a fate. "
Educating children, parents should give their children a sense of rules, which is the best armor for parents to give their children.
May all children have a strong sense of rules under the leadership of their parents and have a safe and happy life.
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