Giving children trust is to promote their positive development, give them a positive hint and promote the benign development of parent-child relationship. It's like two strange Lu Yu. Whoever smiles at each other first will get a friendly return. It is also used for family education and parent-child relationship. If children are given trust, but they still fail to develop according to their parents' expectations, then the family, the parents, must be "seriously ill" in education and have fallen into a quagmire.
Children are not bonsai, and we are not carving bonsai. A child is a growing tree. We should fertilize, water, kill insects and even prune trees, which is what parents should do. However, in trees, how to divide branches, how long branches are, and in which direction they extend should not be restricted, but should give them room to develop freely. Otherwise, we are raising "sick plums". "Obedience" is a mantra given to children by adults. Children who are too obedient have virtually lost the space for active development.
Appreciation is sunshine. Appreciate children, children are sunflowers, growing in the direction of sunshine.
What role do parents play in children's growth? It should be his supporters, not opponents; It should be his helper, not his commander; Should be allies, not enemies.
Reflecting on myself, I feel that as a teacher, there are many shortcomings in the education of children. Thanks to the school for providing parents with such an opportunity to learn, which gave me a profound understanding in thought.