Every bad boy is born with good nature, but under the guidance of living environment and family education, the good boy gradually becomes the Xiong Haizi that everyone hates. They are both hateful and pathetic. Originally, he could have a happy childhood and an enviable social life, but because of the wrong education of his family, his three views have changed.
For example, my friend Xixi, a pregnant mother, asked her husband to buy a bottle of water and wait in the small park. After a while, a little girl rushed to Xixi and hit her in the stomach. At that time, cc felt the pain. Xixi shouted anxiously, and the grandmother next to him said disdainfully, "What happened to the child touching you? How strong can she be? Besides, she touches you because she likes you. "
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Hearing this sophistry, Xixi calmed down and replied, "Well, I like your granddaughter, too. Let me touch her, little girl. " Grandma justifying a fault listened to Xixi's words and was speechless. Then she looked at Xixi's angry look and immediately walked away with her granddaughter, muttering something. The voice is too low for Xixi to hear clearly, but she should be unhappy.
When the child makes a mistake, the family members stand up to protect the child unprincipled, shield the child, argue irrationally and make excuses for the child. Doing so will make children feel that no matter what they do, their families can help them solve it. After a long time, children will evade responsibility and become more and more irresponsible.
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Because you know what you have done wrong, someone will stand by you to protect you, which will make your children more lawless, arrogant and willful, and will lead to great disaster sooner or later. No matter how rich and powerful a family is, it can't stand children's behavior. Families can tolerate children's mistakes, but society can't. Once it really causes a disaster, it will destroy the child.
Children are too well protected and have not been criticized by others since childhood, which will lead to their fragile hearts, which is often called blx. No one's life is smooth sailing, and everyone will encounter setbacks, big and small. Children sheltered by their own weaknesses from childhood cannot face setbacks, and once criticized or failed, they will never recover.
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No matter parents or old people, if you love children, don't spoil them. Everyone has heard a saying that loving mothers often lose their children. First, establish a correct view of children. On the road of children's growth, parents should establish a correct view of children and let them understand that some things cannot be done. When children have this understanding, they will feel bound. Secondly, in the face of children's mistakes, they do not escape, not only children do not escape, but also parents do not escape. Only in this way can children learn a lesson and won't make it again easily next time.
Don't let the children be spoiled by their families. Once his character is formed, it is too difficult to change. The doting of family members will eventually harm the child's life. Loving children does not make them feel happy unconditionally. Therefore, if grandma always comes out in time to stop or communicate with her family when educating her children, most old people are still very reasonable, which is also good for the growth of children.