Change the educational model
Parents should reflect on whether to overprotect or restrict their children. Too many warnings and restrictions will lead children to form an excessive sense of self-protection. On the contrary, children should be encouraged to get in touch with the outside world, participate in group activities and make more friends. In this way, they can gradually overcome their timidity.
Give the child dignity.
Excessive expectations and criticism may hurt children's self-esteem. In order to maintain self-esteem, children may avoid difficulties. Therefore, parents should avoid criticizing their children in front of outsiders and give them enough respect and encouragement.
Create a sense of security
Family environment is very important for children's mental health. Parents should maintain a harmonious and stable relationship between husband and wife, avoid quarreling in front of their children and give them a stable and safe living environment.
Encourage children
Excessive restrictions and protection may hinder the growth of children. Parents should encourage their children to explore the world and let them develop freely. When children encounter difficulties, we should help them analyze the reasons and find solutions instead of criticizing or complaining blindly. Give affirmation and encouragement to their courage and challenging spirit.