First of all, we should pay attention to moderation in beating and cursing. Born in the countryside, I lived up to my parents' expectations. I hope I can become a talented person. Therefore, my education (study) has been extremely strict since childhood. The eagerness to expect my son to succeed and my daughter to succeed will make me beat and scold every time I fail in the mid-term and final exams. My parents' mentality is to teach us a lesson through this kind of beating and cursing. But I think what we and our parents really need is to reflect on the problems, sum up the problems, analyze the reasons and improve. But parents will hurt their children's self-confidence and insecurity by beating and cursing.
Secondly, reflect on why it is necessary to beat and scold children. There are many ways to solve the problem, but the most direct, simple and violent method is chosen. The way parents solve problems is really simple. But I didn't put the children's ideas first. If the child really needs education or improvement and can't communicate in words, he can give an appropriate warning. If this happens frequently, it can constitute domestic violence.
Finally, spanking education will lead to various problems of children, such as interpersonal communication. In fact, people need enough love to develop. Children don't develop until they are loved. When I grow up, I face bullying from my classmates, unreasonable demands from my colleagues and unreasonable troubles from my leaders. He dared not stand up and put forward his own demands, but only dared to compromise, because in his heart, family education became a major part of himself.
Therefore, educate with love and nourish with love. If you don't touch the bottom line, you don't have to beat and scold. Education is the best.