The person we are talking about is Christine, the daughter of Huang Duoduo Huang Lei. Today, she is still a girl of 14 years old. From the little sister that everyone loved in those days to the spit caused by some special behaviors, from the little girl's makeup to lipstick to hair dyeing in her ears, there are hot searches.
When I was nine years old, my mother put photos and even praised her in Weibo. Fans and friends questioned whether it was a bit too mature.
When I was thirteen, I dyed my hair directly and tried many different colors. Some very beautiful colors appeared on her head one by one, and she spit them out so hard that they didn't look like students at all. On the contrary, she looks like a dishonest punk and a little sister. She still wears a ring belonging to her on her ring finger, and many friends ask, are many of our children married?
The hottest thing on social platforms is fitness, probably because a lot of bad behaviors have made fans have more bad impressions of her. Someone even left a message saying that she was deliberately marketing herself just for the popularity of blog headlines.
Excellence comes from the heart. Has Huang Duoduo really gone bad? Actually, it's not. She has always been a game. Think how bad it would be to have a father like Huang Lei.
When Dodo was eight years old, she began to translate her first English novel. As you can imagine, as a child, she has an advantage over her peers in English.
When rehearsing with classmates at the age of nine, you can write your own script in pure English;
At the age of ten, she began to dub English animated films such as The Little Prince, Dream Catcher and Ice Age 2.
At the age of eleven, she has walked the runway for Bonpoint for three consecutive years, and still becomes a small model, even on the Paris show that many people dream of;
At the age of thirteen, I participated in the official competition for the first time and won five first prizes for piano and violin directly.
All the achievements along the way can no longer be regarded as other people's children, but as the heroine in Mary Su's novels. Some people say that so many excellent people can be trained, all of which are piled up by money. Of course, this statement cannot be denied, but it is more because parents' efforts have created the right to succeed for their children.
Duoduo happened to be born in a superior family than most people, but we can't talk about spiritual architecture in terms of material basis. After all, there are countless stubborn rich second generation.
Many people's self-discipline and self-confidence are inseparable from the guidance of their families. We can't change the material situation quickly, but we can learn a lot about family education and rich spiritual life.
At the end of the program, "Where is Dad going?" The lovely village head said, "What do you think Duoduo usually does? This must have been learned from her father. Who is her father? Huang Lei is a teacher of Beijing Film Academy, and she has multiple identities such as singer, director and screenwriter, while Christina, whom we know well, is his student. Huang Lei is a hard worker.
When Dodo was two years old, he followed his parents to drama groups all over the country. In ten years, he has performed more than 200 performances in more than 40 cities. At the age of eight, Duoduo dared to win roles from directors and perform with his parents. The existence of a lot is what parents expect of their children, more like the students described by Huang Lei.
Huang Lei, whose parents are children's best teachers, once said that Duoduo was never regarded as a child, but an independent individual with his own thoughts. She has her own secrets, unique personality and colorful life, so Huang Lei never imposed her stubborn will on her daughter Huang Duoduo.
Many things are more personal choices, and they will not control their children's lives under the banner of being good to you.
Many parents pin all their unfulfilled hopes on their children and force all the so-called good and suitable ones. Some children are fragile because of overindulgence, some children are depressed because they can't stand the oppression of their parents, and some children become giant babies because their parents are too tough. These behaviors are all for educational reasons. Any individual is independent and unique. Oversuppressing children's self-growth can easily become mental illness. For children, there should be more guidance.
Huang Lei's family has never been stingy in expressing their love for their families. Hugs and intimacy are more expressions of love. The close relationship between relatives is their daily life. Although Huang Lei is very busy, she will spend a lot of time with her family and her children. He will take part in many daily activities, whether playing games or baking, he will contact with the freshest things with her.
In a family, husband and wife are harmonious and loving.
What is not supported is that the wife is a relative, so even if Huang Lei got married and had children, she still put her wife in the position of lover. Being a husband and wife is not a habit for many years. It is all because they love each other. Life feelings set a good example for children.
The word puppy love is not supported. In Huang Lei's words, love is love. The seed of love is certainly beautiful, but the word puppy love is not good. What is puppy love?
This kind of education for daughters is evaluated by many people as a stocking education method, which has a different collision with the traditional education method and is contrary to more places. This kind of education makes Duo Duo more mature in the eyes of the public.
The definition of growing up in this world is only good?
Many people are full of longing and exploration for this world, and constantly try and explore its beauty in the unknown world. Sooner or later, everyone will choose a lifestyle that they agree with, and then live according to this lifestyle for a lifetime.
Too much interference from parents will not play much role, and even some extremes will push each other's feelings away. The material brought by home can't change the future of children, and blindly throwing money will make children lose their ability to live independently.
Love without drowning, respect and love are the basis of educating children well, so that children can have their own autonomy and commitment. The best love for children is to let go.
Please don't take the innocence in children's hearts as the balance of this society. For a child of 14 years old, even if he doesn't like it or doesn't like it as an adult, don't abuse it.
Every child is an angel in the eyes of his parents. No matter whether she is good or bad, she will accompany her all the way and give her the greatest support and encouragement forever, which will be the strongest backing, both mentally and materially.