Indeed, defecation is very important.
For one or two-year-old babies, although they have not yet established the ability to defecate independently, they can start training defecation behavior. But this kind of training should follow the baby's physiological development and meet the baby's needs, not to avoid getting dirty.
From birth, the most basic training is to let children defecate independently. So many parents give their children diapers or diapers that are wet, which gives them a year or two to do whatever they want.
Children's defecation ability is a process of gradual development, just like the development of their self-awareness. /kloc-after 0/year old, at the latest 1 year old and a half to 2 years old, many babies can sleep all night without wetting the bed.
At this time, you can take off your diaper according to your child's situation.
After all, around 2 years old, the baby's self-awareness has been established and he wants to be as independent as an adult. However, their independence is not strong enough. Therefore, parents should not be angry when their children's diapers are neat or occasionally bad. They should accept and patiently help children clean up.
Process, this process includes putting diapers, occasionally soiling clothes, pulling everywhere, holding back until you can use the toilet to defecate independently, and after entering kindergarten, you can go to the toilet and wipe yourself.
Cultivating children's defecation ability is the process of developing the baby from "pulling wherever and whenever he wants" to "making civilized defecation behavior conform to the cultural environment"
After the baby enters the park, this ability can ensure that the child is in a good mood.
Then, it is important for parents to exercise as soon as possible, teach their children to defecate and rub little ass.
For the baby, this is not an easy thing, and it needs the support and help of parents.
Due to the limitation of body parts, children can't see it after parents teach them by hand, and the implementation is not intuitive enough.
With a pair of parents, the operation of self-presentation is of great reference significance to parents.
A young couple in Shangqiu, Henan Province taught their children to wipe their bottoms, which was cordial, vivid and intuitive.
Dad took two balloons to "imitate" his ass on his face and painted yellow lipstick on his mouth. Mother is teaching the baby how to wipe.
Hold the paper with your thumb and four fingers, wipe it against the relevant parts, then fold the paper in half and wipe it again.
So, do it a few times, clean it up, and you'll be fine. My daughter sat on a small stool, listening attentively and nodding from time to time.
Obviously, children study hard.
Children never go to the toilet, and it takes a process to wipe their bottoms after going to the toilet smoothly.
No matter whether the child learns fast or slow, no matter whether the baby defecates fast or slow, parents give support, and the baby can enjoy the process better without urging or fidgeting.
After the baby learns to defecate, because of the lack of self-care ability, he goes to undress or go to the toilet by himself. Parents patiently guide the baby to improve his exercise level after giving comfort.
Children are timid, and their parents' attitude towards them can make them face defecation calmly, rather than escape.
The anal period is the second stage of Freud's psychological sexual desire development, which lasts about 1 3 years. At this stage, the sexy area of children is the anus or buttocks, and the satisfaction of desire mainly comes from the retention of stool or the process of defecation.
However, this kind of pleasure related to defecation will conflict with parents' requirements for children to delay defecation and form a law. In this process, parents need to solve it properly and help their children learn to control their defecation behavior to meet the requirements of society.
Anal personality includes two types. Anal excretory personality is characterized by sloppy, wasteful, disorganized and presumptuous personality. This type of people are often unruly and dirty. Anal constipation personality is characterized by excessive cleanliness, attention to detail, meanness and stubbornness. This type of people always want to catch things and add their own way to other people and things.
After the baby enters the anal period, how to deal with defecation behavior is an important growth task at this stage. If it is completed well, the libido will not be fixed at this stage, and the personality will be well developed.
Children need a child to complete defecation smoothly, autonomously and perfectly.
The development of children's defecation ability is a gradual process, and different children have differences.
When a child has a feeling of defecation, defecation in time, instead of defecation when he can't hold back, not only helps the child to establish the conditions for defecation when he has a feeling of defecation, but also helps the normal development of his personality.
In this process, the child's desire in the anal period is satisfied, and he learns good interpersonal communication methods in the process of receiving defecation training. They can take care of their own and their parents' willingness to defecate, and establish positive behaviors of "excreting" and "not excreting", so as to successfully pass the anal period and develop their personality normally.
On the contrary, if parents are too indulgent or too strict with their children's defecation behavior in the process of cultivating their baby's ability to learn defecation, and the child's demand for anal activities is not met or over-satisfied, it may lead to the fixation of sexual desire in the anal period and show corresponding personality characteristics, such as waste, sloppy, stingy, neat, compulsive and stubborn.
There are many internal conflicts among individuals in anal period, focusing on: grasping or giving up, resisting or obeying, and who controls whom.
In short, parents must remember that guiding children to defecate is not only to make their life in the park easier and more comfortable, but also an important life experience that can promote the healthy development of their personality.
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