Especially as a boy, he should be dominant during the period of love, so he should master the skills of love in order to go further and make girls love themselves more.
Boys must know the skills of love.
1, don't make trouble and don't understand.
In love, a boy is responsible, loyal and not philandering, which is his duty as a boyfriend. There is nothing to say.
But this does not mean that "you can be big-hearted and show indifference to everything."
When you accidentally glance at the other party's mobile phone, she immediately changes direction to avoid you, or even locks the screen immediately;
When you are in the same room with her, she has been holding a mobile phone and even taking a shower in sight;
When you ask her some social questions, she shows great anger and even accuses you of being narrow-minded.
Then you have nothing to doubt. There's probably more than one ghost in her heart.
If a girl wants to be green, the first thing to do is to reduce the transparency of her relationship with you. The male girlfriends I meet in love are really not pure friendships, but mostly the next candidates I find for myself.
2. Girlfriends are for handling, not for "nurturing".
I found that many young men, especially those in the north, believe in such a "false truth" when they are in love:
"Men, money is spent on their daughters-in-law."
Therefore, I am not willing to eat or wear, and I am not married. The salary card has been given to the other party for nothing. If you meet a good girl, she can help you save money and manage your finances, but when you meet a brave warrior, you will find that "you don't want to buy steamed buns even if you eat pickles yourself", but they are Dior and Chanel.
When people are really old enough to talk about marriage, you can't even make a down payment on the house, and other boys have already prepared the garage. Who do you think such a girl will choose? The answer is self-evident.
Boys should not be too picky, but they should not be too generous. After all, girlfriends are used to get along, not to "raise". Save as much money as possible. Buy a car if you can afford it, and show it to your girlfriend if you can afford a house.
3, mother treasure girl, help brother magic girl, absolutely can not associate.
Try not to find girls who come from spoiled or unloved families. Don't think that you are God and can save this girl.
The idea is full and the reality is very skinny. People who don't have such a high emotional intelligence and a way of dealing with the world, you can't save her, and most of them will be dragged into the quagmire by her.
Remember one sentence: just fall in love and get along well with each other's family, which doesn't require you to please, let alone unconditionally support each other's family financially.
Girls who help devils must not associate.
Girls may only see you, but there must be stars and the sea in your eyes.
Boys, don't take "wife and children are hot on the kang" as your ultimate ideal. Then your fate is probably either green or waiting to take over.
Most girls have a strong psychological desire to marry a man who can conquer them for a long time, which is why "women with a monthly salary of 3,000 don't like takeout with a monthly salary of 10,000".
Don't meet a woman and treat her as your own world. You can't marry her easily. In the end, the world is the easiest for you to lose.
Remember one sentence: no one deserves to be your world. You need to achieve a better and better self in love, and then hold her hand and let her see the whole world.
No matter what kind of girl you are, what disappoints them is not that you have accomplished nothing for a while, but that you have been around her without ambition and ambition. Living your old life year after year, you may enjoy it, but she will become dull one day. So girls may only see you, but there must be stars and the sea in your eyes.
People who always compare you actually don't like you at all.
"My ex-boyfriend has a monthly salary of 3w. Can you find the gap? "
"Look at your boyfriend, they all have six packs. Look at you again! "
"I should listen to my mother and have a good blind date with that man." Does the girl's "repressive education" make you stronger? No, even if you live what she wants, she will still find various reasons to suppress you, because from the beginning, you are her "second best" option. To put it bluntly, you are just a transitional spare tire boyfriend of hers.
If you find a girl deliberately comparing you with others at a high frequency, then I advise you to give up as soon as possible and stop loss in time, so as not to be cannon fodder for her vanity.
A girl who really likes you, you must be irreplaceable in her eyes. Although she may dislike you for a long time, she loves you and will carefully safeguard your self-esteem.
Those girls who trample your dignity and self on the ground, even with you, have been looking for a new home. When they meet a better man, you are the first person she dumped.