Many parents were moved by a lot of kindness and elegance when watching Where is Dad Going 2. After all, many parents go downstairs gracefully with their dogs, and help their injured father to carefully dress the wound, which is very considerate. As for their grades, they are outstanding, and they can communicate with people in English from an early age.
Mothers will envy Huang Lei for having such a sensible daughter when they see this place.
In fact, Huang Lei can have such a daughter not because he is lucky, but because he knows how to get along with children and how to educate them.
So how did Huang Lei educate her daughter?
Huang Lei and Sun Li gave birth to their daughter Christine in 2006 and gave her a lovely nickname Huang Duoduo, which means? How happy and long? This is also their first child. Perhaps because of the first child, Huang Lei is more concerned about this daughter's education.
However, care does not mean strictness, and Huang Lei is rational about a lot of educational methods.
1. First of all, many parents may think that their children are not sensible and often make decisions for their children, which is easy to ignore their views. But Huang Lei is different. No matter whether there are more eldest daughters or other children, he always respects their own opinions and often encourages them to think for themselves. Under this educational concept, I have grown a lot. I was able to write English scripts before I was ten years old, and I also showed great talent in acting.
In addition, Huang Lei also attaches great importance to cultivating many personal interests. She often takes a lot to accept various artistic influences, such as music festivals and stage performances. After discovering the interests and talents of many stage plays, Huang Lei began to cultivate her hobbies according to her own interests, such as taking her to see some stage plays and encouraging her to perform independently, so during this period, she was able to participate in many activities, such as stage plays, runway shows and so on.
In fact, when Duo Duo was five years old, he participated in the talk show "Lu Yu You Yue" for the first time. At that time, people noticed the child because she had her own ideas and knew more than other children of her age.
2. So Huang Lei not only respects children's education methods, but also pays special attention to setting an example for children. When he makes any demands on his children, he will take the lead in doing so, which will make Duo Duo happy to learn some advantages from him.
On the other hand, some of our parents often just say:? I am like this. I was repaired. It's hopeless Everything depends on you. ? Although this common saying is to let children study hard, it will also add some pressure to children invisibly, which is not conducive to their growth.
Moreover, Huang Lei is a person who loves reading, and he certainly hopes that his children will do the same. After all, reading more can affect a person's life, so he began to cultivate her interest in reading when she was illiterate. He insisted on telling stories and reading books to his children, and gradually developed a very strong reading habit. Many famous works at home and abroad were read with Huang Lei.
Finally, Huang Lei hardly blames his children unless it is a matter of principle, such as lying, betrayal and other bad qualities. In short, he and Toto can be said to be completely complete? Free education? .
When Duoduo entered adolescence, which made many parents have a headache, Huang Lei did not stop her various rebellious behaviors. For example, now that Huang Duoduo has grown up, he doesn't care about such behaviors as piercing her ears and dyeing her hair. He said as long as his daughter likes it.
Many people think that this is a kind of doting on children, but it is actually a kind of respect for children. To respect a child, we must respect her thoughts. Young people should try more and understand what they can and can't do.
And it is thanks to Huang Lei's educational model that there are so many today.
Better to live well than to teach well. Many excellent children are not born excellent, but are educated by their parents the day after tomorrow. Nowadays, times are different. Many parents can't accept their children's personality because their children's personality is traditional, and they have been suppressing their children. Whenever their children make a small mistake, they want to solve the problem by violent means.
But in the end, it is not only contradictory with children, but also the effect is not ideal, which is not worth the candle.
So how to educate children correctly? Copying Huang Lei's routine? Copying completely is obviously not necessarily effective, but we just need to grasp its essence. All parenting styles in Huang Lei have one characteristic, that is? Do everything with children's emotions in mind. . This is also the key to the success of education in Huang Lei.
But many parents may know this importance, but they don't know how to guide their children and take care of their emotions.