First, after a period of anti-MLM, my first sentence now is to persuade them to calm down first.
I heard that relatives and friends were caught in pyramid schemes, and many people were anxious to wake them up and urge them to go home. As a matter of fact, it's no use worrying, and it can't solve any problems. When people are not calm, they will make some wrong behaviors, such as calling to persuade, quarreling with relatives and friends, giving ultimatums and so on. This is completely wrong. Many people who have never seen pyramid schemes are still worried about the personal safety of their relatives and friends, whether they will be threatened by violence and whether they will be personally injured. In fact, this kind of worry is unnecessary. There is absolutely no problem with his personal safety. On the contrary, he has a good life. Therefore, there is absolutely time, and it is absolutely necessary to calm down first. Of course, it is our most urgent and ultimate goal to persuade relatives and friends to go home as soon as possible after waking up, but if we don't calm down and prepare, the possibility of successful rescue is very small or even impossible.
Second, to calm down, we need to do two things seriously. I think these two things should not be underestimated. In fact, these two questions are the most common mistakes made by people who are eager to convince their relatives and friends.
The first thing is to know as much as possible about the essence and operation mode of MLM. The deception of pyramid schemes is really powerful, and we have to respect our opponents. You can't rashly say that you already know about pyramid schemes, otherwise when persuading relatives and friends, it is very likely that you will be speechless by him. The key point of our understanding of pyramid selling is that the essence of pyramid selling is illegal and unprofitable. We also need to know the specific operation form of pyramid selling, and be targeted when persuading, so that relatives and friends can understand that it is not direct selling, and we also need to know the real operation mode of direct selling. Actually, it takes a lot of time to understand these contents.
The second thing is to keep in touch with relatives and friends (especially those who have just joined MLM). If you are not careful, your relatives and friends will play with you and disappear. This is no joke. If you want to find him again, it will be as difficult as heaven! At this time, you need to pay more attention. First, don't convince her on the phone, it's almost impossible (don't compete with me, it's not cool). Don't argue with her on the phone or give him an ultimatum. None of this is useful. On the contrary, you should show how much you care about her and want to visit him there. If you try to get his detailed address, she will never tell you easily. Secondly, there are many topics on the phone. You can say how good you eat and ask her if she eats well. How soundly you slept. Ask her how she slept. How comfortable are you? Ask her what's bothering you. You care about her very much. Is it easy to live outside? Are you satisfied? Do you need to visit him? Also, if you want to say that you have no money, you should borrow money from him. Don't let him borrow money from you. Let him know that you also need more money. This is the trick to keep in touch with him. Let her know that you are his closest, most reliable and trustworthy person, and you will never cheat him. As long as possible, you will always support him emotionally and financially. Let him know that you won't betray him, so that he can keep in touch with you.
Third, you will calm down after carefully preparing for the above two things. There are four things that need to be synchronized at this time.
The first is to cut off her financial resources and think carefully about who will lend him money. In particular, be sure to tell the truth to his next of kin, such as his parents (if her parents are not too confused). You should make every effort to prevent her from getting another penny. Her living expenses in MLM institutions are about 200 yuan/month. So as long as he gets a small sum of money, you will never see him again for a long time. He couldn't get a penny, had no money and couldn't live any longer, so he went home by himself. The MLM organization is by no means a charity and will not keep him. Don't be afraid that she can't go home. If she can go out, she can come back. I really don't trust you. You can pick him up. Don't save money in this situation. But remember, don't give him a penny. Once he has money, he won't come back by himself. You should take the money, not let him take a penny. This is crucial. He is unreliable and can't be trusted.
The second thing is to end his potential market. He has a list of people who are going to be invited. This is his market. You should analyze who will be here. Choosing the person she trusts most has a great influence on his life. Tell the truth to those who have seen the world. In fact, usually, you just need to tell her next of kin (parents), just tell one person, but make sure that his next of kin are not all idiots, otherwise it will ruin his family. If possible, try to choose the person closest to her to tell the truth. You shouldn't tell all her friends about it in order to leave her a way out. If you succeed in taking away his financial resources and market, you will basically succeed. You just have to wait and he will go home.
As long as he goes home, you need to restrict him from going back. At the same time, it is very important to seek help from anti-MLM volunteers to convince him. It is necessary to treat both the symptoms and the root causes, so as to ensure that he will no longer be stubborn and wake up faster.
The third thing, if you can't wait and are afraid to bear more losses, you need to be rescued. At least two knowledgeable relatives and friends should go to the rescue together. At this time, you may need the help of friends who are anti-MLM alliance. There are many people in the anti-MLM alliance who can help you. I believe you can get help. Note that you need to do more preparation.
The fourth thing, in the rescue, is mainly our own strength, we can not rely on the government, but we can rely on (that is, use) the government. To be precise, the government refers to the police station here. You can't expect the police at the police station to help you solve all your problems. However, you can save your relatives under the protection of the police. If they don't go to the police, you need to find ways to get them to go to the police, such as providing evidence that they have the responsibility and obligation to go to the police. In particular, you must call the police when calling the police. The telephone number is 1 10. They are the strength you can rely on, but you can't. As long as you get your relatives and friends home, you will succeed in general. If you limit them to go home for a month, the first step to solve this headache is to walk away.