I have a heavier sense of responsibility, and I always find that I know more than my friends around me, and what I say is more pertinent than them. Although I tried my best not to let them misunderstand whether I was pretending to be forced, I still attracted a lot of people's jealousy and secret jealousy ... Finally, because of these jealousy, some people think that everyone around them is stupid and hopelessly hateful, so it seems to be arrogant rather than really mature; On the contrary, people who can really open their hearts to others because of jealousy or even revenge are truly mature, rather than thinking that they are more mature than their peers.

In addition, the most obvious experience is that you are willing to chat with older people and listen to their stories, feeling that they are your peers and mentors. This is most likely to appear in urban life after the age of 25. After the last rebellious period of college self-righteousness, listening to the experiences and experiences of old people and people who have worked will make you grow. It is not an exaggeration for some people to think that they are more mature than their peers.

If you just talk about experience, you will like knowledge more, pay more attention to interpersonal relationships, and be humble when you are praised, otherwise this sense of honor may be spoken ill of in an instant ... almost, a feeling of standing out from the crowd and not daring to stand out.