Method 1: Don't enter the adult world prematurely.
A seven-year-old girl should do something suitable for her age, and don't let her enter the adult world prematurely. This is the focus of education for seven-year-old girls. At this time, girls may yearn for the adult world, but this is just a curiosity. Don't treat her like an adult, and don't play some adult jokes with her, such as "What kind of boyfriend are you going to find when you grow up?" Little ladies or acting like adults are not the right age. If it is allowed to enter the adult world too early, on the one hand, it will make girls of this age feel confused or at a loss, on the other hand, it will deprive children of their innocence.
Method 2: Give advice appropriately, but don't make a decision.
Seven-year-old girls have their own thoughts and preferences. She likes many things, such as beautiful headdresses, different styles of clothes, large and small dolls and so on. Because there are too many choices, she may feel confused and unable to start. Therefore, in the education of seven-year-old girls, parents should appropriately narrow the range of choices and provide their own suggestions in good faith, so that girls feel safe and not disgusted, and it is easy to win the cooperation of their daughters.
Note that after the age of 7, the girl has the ability to think rationally, and she no longer needs her parents to make decisions for her. Don't impose her opinions on the girl, so as not to cause her disgust.
Method 3: Respect the emotions of girls of this age.
Don't think that the older a girl is, the more disobedient she is. Just because they grow up and have a sense of self. With the growth of children's bodies, their thoughts actually began to grow, forming their own independent personality, and the role of parents should be changed from the previous decider to the guide accordingly.
At this time, the education of seven-year-old girls should focus on respecting their emotions, and don't deny their thoughts and emotions easily, so as not to cause rebellious psychology, and finally there will be behaviors that don't cooperate with their parents. Just like animals, if parents want to follow them, they must learn to respect their self-awareness and their emotions, so that our girls can always be "good girls".
In our nature, boys are active and careless, while girls are quiet, sensitive and fragile, so parents should make corresponding changes in education. In the education of seven-year-old girls, we should pay attention to their psychological and emotional changes, encourage and guide her to develop in the direction you expect, instead of stiffly denying her feelings and emotions, which will make her more willing to cooperate with you rather than oppose you.