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Marrying Phoenix Man, Mental Violence, Fukuhara Ai's Marriage Defence of "Sports Porcelain Doll".
"If life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind painting fan?"

On July 8, Jiang officially announced his divorce, and the relationship that lasted for half a year finally came to an end.

This love, once known as a "sports fairy tale", ended in divorce. How sweet it used to be, how bitter it is now.

The divorce storm also touched the hearts of netizens in China, Japan and Taiwan Province province. Although deeply involved in the affair, Jiang's verbal violence has also attracted attention.

There are three kinds of public opinions:

But as a former "group pet" of China table tennis team, she was raised by China people. A wrong marriage really shouldn't erase her former glory, so today we will talk about Fukuhara Ai herself.

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At the age of 3, he became attached to table tennis and won the national championship at the age of 5.

1988, Fukuhara Ai was born in Sendai, Miyagi Prefecture. Parents are ordinary employees, but they attach great importance to their children's education and even advocate it at all costs.

Because Fukuhara Ai, the mother of Chiyo, is an amateur table tennis player, I hope to train my children to be professional players. When Fukuhara Ai's brother was in junior high school, his parents started a table tennis training program.

The goal they set for their son is ranking. At that time, Fukuhara Ai, who had just turned 3, watched his brother practice every day, but his mouth kept muttering:

"I also want to play. I want to play, too. "

Mom didn't care at first. However, Fukuhara Ai has been arguing about playing ball for half a year, just like my brother didn't show interest. Chiyo Fukuhara Ai decided to let his daughter have a try. Unexpectedly, Fukuhara Ai showed great talent in this attempt.

In this way, Fukuhara Ai, who was 3 years old and 9 months old, started the road of table tennis.

At that time, Fukuhara Ai could hardly reach the table. She needs to stand on tiptoe to play ball or stand on a small bench, but this does not prevent her from being fascinated by table tennis.

Even if he is tired from training or criticized, Jiang will cry and stubbornly pick up the table tennis racket and keep practicing.

At the age of 4, Fukuhara Ai participated in the National Table Tennis Competition for Primary School Students held in Sendai.

She is the youngest and only kindergarten player in the competition, but she can beat her opponent quickly after playing.

That is, in this competition, Japanese documentary director Sato Hideyoshi took a fancy to Fukuhara Ai at a glance and prepared to shoot a documentary about her growth.

No one expected that this lovely little girl, in the next 24 years, generate showed amazing strength, and she could gradually become the leader of Japanese women's table tennis from a talented girl.

From 65438 to 0993, five-year-old Fukuhara Ai participated in the Japanese table tennis competition and won the national championship in the lower group (below the second grade of primary school).

This is the first champion in Fukuhara Ai's life, so she was dubbed as a "talented table tennis player", which spread all over Japan.

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Go to China to study abroad and start a career.

Because of his extraordinary talent, Fukuhara Ai's road to table tennis is very smooth.

From 65438 to 0999, Fukuhara Ai, in the fourth grade, officially entered the ranks of professional players by virtue of her own strength.

In the second year, he joined the national team and became the youngest member of the Japanese national team.

At the same time, in order to improve his skills more quickly, 12-year-old Jiang went to China to study alone.

Tang Yuanyuan, a famous table tennis player in China and captain of Liaoning team, became Fukuhara Ai's personal coach.

She has been with Fukuhara Ai for more than 10 years. She not only successfully practiced Fukuhara Ai's Northeast dialect to 10 level, but also introduced her to her teammates-Wang Nan and Guo Yue who were in Liaoning Bengang Club at the same time.

With its lovely image, Fukuhara Ai once became the "darling" of the China team.

Under the guidance of Tang Yuanyuan, 14-year-old Fukuhara Ai became the youngest world champion in Japanese history and successfully entered the quarter-finals. You know, Japan has not been in the top eight for a long time.

/kloc-at the age of 0/5, Fukuhara Ai successfully entered the Olympic Games, representing Japan in the Athens Olympic Games, and reached the top of the world 16.

At every stage, Fukuhara Ai is breaking Japanese table tennis records. At that time, she also became a talented girl admired by all Japan and loved by the people.

However, Fukuhara Ai's road to table tennis is extremely smooth, but his road to Olympic medals is extremely bumpy, all of which is due to his father who is obsessed with money.

15 years old In Fukuhara Ai, my father's company went bankrupt and was in debt of hundreds of millions, so he began to regard his daughter as a "cash cow". Whoever gives more money, let love sauce sign which one, whether it helps her career or not.

Such honey operation eventually became a stumbling block to Fukuhara Ai's career.

The 2008 Beijing Olympic Games is undoubtedly Fukuhara Ai's nightmare, because she met the great devil Zhang Yining.

That year, Fukuhara Ai represented Japan in the Olympic Games, and his opponent was Zhang Yining. In the first game, Zhang Yining led by 9: 0, which made Fukuhara Ai cry.

Looking at Fukuhara Ai, who was in tears, there was another rule that opponents could not score 1 1: 0. Zhang Yining deliberately made a mistake in serving and released water for Fukuhara Ai.

Although there is no doubt that Zhang Yining got the final result, it was China who remembered this Japanese girl who loved to cry.

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Success meets love.

Fukuhara Ai didn't win a medal in the 2008 Olympic Games. At the same time, the Japanese media broke her love affair with Nishikori Kei, the "tennis prince".

Fukuhara Ai's father attributed Fukuhara Ai's failure to love to clarify his relationship. Japanese public opinion accused Fukuhara Ai of not focusing on playing well and winning glory for his country.

Therefore, Fukuhara Ai had to apologize to the public and break up with Nishikori Kei.

After that, Fukuhara Ai drew a line with her father, and her brother and mother acted as middlemen. She devotes herself to table tennis. 20 1 1, Fukuhara Ai joined the Guangdong Women's Table Tennis Team and participated in the Chinese Table Tennis Super League.

Through constant confrontation training with China players, Fukuhara Ai's skills are constantly improving. In 2009, Fukuhara Ai won the women's singles and women's doubles at the Moroccan Open. On 20 12 London Olympic Games, the Japanese women's table tennis team led by Fukuhara Ai won the second place in the team. ...

In 20 14, Fukuhara Ai led the Japanese women's table tennis team to the Incheon Asian Games and won the second place in the team again.

Fukuhara Ai brought Japanese table tennis to a new height, and she also became the leader of Japanese table tennis, leading the existence of table tennis in Heisei era.

Just then, I met Jiang.

Fukuhara Ai had to undergo surgery because of fatigue fracture of his left middle foot. At this time, Jiang took the initiative to appear, comforting and encouraging her every day, and finally touched her heart.

At that time, Jiang was very obedient, and his parents were also caring and attentive to love sauce.

1 1 met at the age of, fell in love at the age of 26, and Fukuhara Ai's fairy-tale love began.

From the moment she fell in love, Jiang changed from an unknown table tennis player to a boyfriend with a high degree of topic.

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Marry a Phoenix man, and marriage is all chicken feathers.

On 20 16, Fukuhara Ai won the fourth place in the women's singles at the Rio Olympic Games, which was her last appearance in the international arena.

The Japanese team's little players have gradually grown up, and the media's focus is no longer on love sauce. Ishikawa Kasumi, Ito Mikei and Heping Nomi are gradually known.

Just then, Jiang proposed to him, and then they held a press conference in Japan to formally announce the good news of marriage.

At that time, they only had eyes for each other. Love sauce said happily, "He will discuss everything with me and support me at any time." Looking at her affectionately beside Jiang.

Many people said they didn't support it, because in table tennis, it ranked ninth in the world at that time, and Jiang ranked100+; As far as income is concerned, it is 30 times that of Jiang. ...

This "status gap marriage" is basically unhappy, but Fukuhara Ai got married without hesitation, because Ai Jiang's greatest wish is to get married and have children.

There is a wedding in Taiwan Province Province and a wedding in Japan. Japanese Wedding Fukuhara Ai chose Tokyo Disneyland because it was the place where she begged her mother to go many times when she was a child.

Love sauce childhood wish is to put on a wedding dress to play table tennis, that day, she also realized.

Only a few people know that for this small wish, Jiang encountered the first verbal violence.

The day before the Japanese wedding, she packed her bags happily, but Jiang suddenly said no because her shoulder hurt.

Love sauce quickly begged ginger and whispered, "this is a very important occasion."

Jiang choked on his face,

Perhaps Fukuhara Ai chose forbearance and tolerance from the beginning, which led to the tragedy of this marriage and left him scarred.

After the marriage, she gave birth to a son and a daughter for Jiang, but there was a chicken feather with her.

Jiang's sister took advantage of the popularity of love sauce to expose Jiang He's private life without authorization, which troubled her, but she got a sentence from Jiang: "That's my sister, not bothering me."

I cooked for my mother-in-law with a big belly, and gave her friend the racket for the Olympic Games for her words. Finally, she got her mother-in-law's words: "You are the hen that lays golden eggs in our family."

In the face of such ridicule, complaining to Jiang, you get "you are crazy and misinterpret your mother's meaning."

Perhaps because of the low status of Japanese women, Fukuhara Ai did her duty to her husband after marriage.

She will watch Jiang leave when he is at work; The second half waited at the door, even kneeling to help him take off his shoes and change them. ...

In this regard, Jiang did not cherish it very much, but said impatiently that he was very Japanese.

20 19, in order to take care of his family wholeheartedly, Fukuhara Ai chose to retire.

She said, "There is no life in table tennis, but there is table tennis in life." She said goodbye to her favorite table tennis.

However, I think that my choice to return to my family will make Jiang devote himself wholeheartedly to his table tennis career. However, after owning this big tree, I gradually lost my interest in training and gradually got rid of my status as a professional player.

After giving birth to a child, he still suffered from language violence in Jiang. Because of their different views on parenting, Jiang constantly criticized and used language violence, which caused more and more pressure, and abnormal bleeding occurred from time to time during non-menstruation.

But Fukuhara Ai still chose patience. She is too traditional and humble.

What really broke out in Fukuhara Ai was that Fukuhara Ai went to the dentist in 2020. When she got home, Jiang not only didn't care, but satirized her: "She opened her mouth to others like a J-girl."

This time, Fukuhara Ai was no longer patient. She went back to Japan in a fit of pique and decided to divorce.

In fact, these are inseparable from her family background. The status of Japanese women is very low. In her family, my father has always been the shopkeeper who cuts vegetables, and my mother must do everything at home and wait for her husband's return every day.

Fukuhara Ai's mother asked her to be a traditional wife while cultivating love sauce into a successful woman, but blind sacrifice would only make her husband not know how to cherish it.

Finally, they divorced, and Fukuhara Ai's fairy tale dream woke up. Actually, I should say she finally woke up.

How determined she was to marry Jiang at the beginning, and now how determined she is to divorce.

Some people say that Jiang is more calculating from the beginning, but this is not necessarily the case. Maybe he was in love at first, but a man's "dignity" made him want to crush the love sauce through verbal violence.

Perhaps, Fukuhara Ai will never find the man who is willing to send all the milk tea in Taiwan to her side;

It is difficult for Jiang to have a woman who is willing to kneel down and take off her shoes.

That crying sauce has grown up. She said that she wanted to do a good job and had started a company.

Although this marriage is scarred, it can make them grow up. Fairy tales are illusory after all, and I hope that the face of love sauce can still bloom with a sweet smile.

Marriage is not necessarily for happiness, divorce must be.

In our hearts, she will always be the Fukuhara Ai who cries when she loses;

Fukuhara Ai won't give up even if she is abused by the Great Devil for a thousand times. She hopes that she will get better and better.