Growth is only once, and education cannot be repeated. No matter how hard parents try, they will be more effective than 10 years ago. For many parents, they often face the question: which is more important, career success or educating their children? Some people say that companionship is the best education. It is better to give a child a complete sense of security. Some people say that without money, how can we educate our children, stabilize our families and maintain family ties? But they forget that children only grow up once and have only one chance to educate them. It is a lifelong regret to miss them. Flowers will reopen one day and people will no longer be young. Every child's education is an irreparable live broadcast, and there is only one chance in his life. I once read a writer's sentiment that parents, like food, have a "validity period" and it is very short, only ten years. I'm afraid only parents can understand the meaning. When I was a child, my child was always obedient, but when I grew up, I became more and more willful. When I was a child, my child was very dependent on us, but when I grew up, he got farther and farther away from us. That's because the shelf life of parents has passed, and a lot of education is useless. In the TV series "Chinese Love", Ma intends to divorce, and they are fighting for the custody of their children. Ma thinks that he has paid so much for his family, and the children naturally belong to him, but he doesn't even know what grade the children are in. In the end, the child ignored his father's various wooing and chose his mother. When children are young, parents are omnipotent and completely reliable. This is the golden age of educating children. Once you are a teenager, your parents' "validity period" expires. If you don't accompany your child well, you will lose the right to educate your child and even be ignored by your child. When Fang Zuming was arrested for taking drugs, Jackie Chan regretted not educating his children properly. When Fang Zuming needed education most, he was so absorbed in his career that he didn't even know what grade his children were in. Fang Zuming once said to Jackie Chan, "I don't remember you, even your back." Children are a gift from God. If you don't cherish them, God will take back this sweet gift. However, many parents ignore this validity period. In their eyes, making money is more important than children and career is more important than education. With money and a career, why worry about not teaching children well? In order to work, they can't accompany their children. They said, don't worry, someone will bring it. For their careers, they can't educate their children themselves. They said, don't worry, he will understand when he grows up. However, countless facts have proved that children's growth is irreversible, and there is only one chance to educate children. The hit variety Metamorphosis a few years ago is a good proof. Those children who have lived in a superior environment since childhood can't take care of themselves and naturally accept the care of others. Moreover, they are often overbearing and supercilious, and they lose their temper when they are slightly unhappy. They don't see any tutors. This shows that even with more money and lack of companionship for children, education is a failure. Dong Qing once reminded his parents: "You have worked hard to earn money all your life, and you may not be as good as your children in a year!" The growth of children is irreversible. When he has accumulated enough disappointment and lost trust in you, you still want to intervene in his education and preach endlessly. He only thinks: when I need your company, you always say that you are busy working to make money. When I grow up, you will tell me what to do. Why? Nothing is born, and behind every excellent child is the efforts of parents. Many people know that there is a kind of children called "other people's children". But I don't know that there is a kind of parents called "other people's parents". As the old saying goes, it is the father's fault that the son doesn't teach. As the saying goes, a loving mother often loses her son. It can be seen that what kind of person a child will become has a constant relationship with his parents. Parents are children's first teachers and the best teachers in their lives. Think of a sentence that Wu Yishu's mother said: "Genius does not exist, its cause lies in the family, and its root lies in the parents." Growing up, Wu Yishu's parents will spend a long time with her reading, drawing and practicing calligraphy. In order to set a good example for children, they stay away from mahjong tables and game machines and study patiently with their children. Wu Yishu's father turns off his phone every day at 16:30, just to concentrate on his children. The formation of a person's character is rooted in childhood. Behavior forms habit, habit forms character, and character determines fate. Parents' education and role models directly determine their children's future. Children are a mirror of parents. Parents' words and deeds, every move, children see in their eyes, learn in their hearts, and reflect in their actions and mouths! Moderator Bai believes that parents have three major responsibilities: 1, to be role models for their children; 2. Realize your dreams for your children at all costs; 3. Help children build strong internal strength and external good habits. Education is the cause of shaping the soul. Only by setting an example and going all out can we give full play to our greatest strength and help children grow up. People's Daily once published an article warning parents that educating children is the most important career in your life. No matter how good the school is, no matter how good the teacher is, it will never replace the position of parents in children's hearts. Parents' cultivation and family education are indispensable for children to have good conduct. Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, was a "child of other people's family" when he was a child and a "parent of other people's family" when he grew up. No matter how busy he is at work, he insists on picking up the children, accompanying them to study and so on. My wife Melinda also insisted on taking care of the children. She said, "I hope that when people talk about the name Melinda Gates in the future, they will think of an excellent mother. The biggest investment in my life is my three children, followed by my career. " Educating children well is every parent's lifelong career. Even if you earn more money and have a higher status, it is not as meaningful as educating your children to succeed. When you are old, if your children are worthless and still worry you, it will make you feel the greatest frustration in life. On the contrary, a promising child is enough for parents to enjoy their old age. I remember a writer saying, "The meaning of a good family is not how rich it is, but that each generation tries its best to support the next generation." Parents should use their own practical actions to influence their children's spiritual world, help them ignite the power of life and put wings on their growth.