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Education is angry.
First, empathy: when such a problem arises, it must be difficult for you to understand why the child is like this. Let's discuss how to solve it together.

Second, concretization: What is the definition of children's "hate" for teachers? What "extreme" methods did you take to vent your emotions after you thought everyone was unfair to her?

Third, discuss the causes of the problem, and make a concrete analysis:

A family relationship problem: Behind children's extreme emotions, family relationship problems are often reflected, and it will be more effective to solve problems from relationships.

Solution: First of all, what are the definitions of "hatred" and "extremism"? When we hear our parents say something serious, let's not be afraid. Let's ask the meaning behind those serious words first, because many parents will aggravate the situation unnaturally when expressing it, but the real situation is probably not so terrible. Secondly, children who hate teachers, classmates and mothers are almost certain that their parents have done something that makes them feel "annoying" in the family, so children will have emotions and resistance, and more will explore the family situation, not only for children, but also for parents, fathers and even the elderly. Thirdly, if the child feels that her parents are unfair to her, ask why. Children are more competitive, and what we think is a small matter may be a big thing for children. Thirdly, give some good ways to vent their emotions, such as: taking children out to exercise, singing, playing football, eating together, visiting amusement parks together, or asking children to find a notebook to record their sad things and help them establish reasonable vent channels. Finally, it is definitely not enough for such a family to love and care for their children. Parents should be guided to give their children more support, encouragement and care.