However, in educating children, there are many problems in Ma Yashu's parenting style. It is understood that Ma Yashu's daughter was eventually dismissed from kindergarten because of her poor self-care ability in kindergarten. In fact, this situation has been exposed as early as a parent-child program. During the meal, Ma Yashu's family sat on the floor without using the table. Later, she explained that she was afraid of being hit by a child. When the children were playing with sand, Ma Yashu immediately stopped the children from playing with sand, thinking it was a potential safety hazard.
In this program, although we vividly see Ma Yashu's maternal love, the excessive protection of children may be detrimental to their healthy growth.
If children are spoiled by their parents at home, they will not be humble and even become overbearing when interacting with others. If they do this often, it is likely that they will not make friends easily, and long-term solitude will eventually lead to loneliness.
If children are spoiled by their parents since childhood, parents will help them solve problems when they have difficulties, which is actually not conducive to the healthy growth of children. He will form an inertia. In the future, when he has difficulties, he will not think about how to solve them, but let his parents help him solve them. As we all know, parents will not take care of their children all their lives, and children will grow up after all. If they are not allowed to be independent at the right time, it is likely to ruin their lives.
If parents spoil their children all the time, they will have higher and higher requirements for their children. When not satisfied, children may try their best to get used to their small temper.
Although parents want to give their best to their children, the overflow will be full, and the extremes meet. Once parents' love is too full, love may turn into stress. Therefore, if parents want their children to grow up healthily, they must learn to give them proper love.