First, don't simply and rudely let children greet their uncles and aunts.
When children show unnatural or shy behavior habits, parents should not rush into it. They should guide their children step by step, let them sit with themselves and communicate with them more. Tell your friends in advance, and talk to your children more, so that children can feel the kindness of strangers, get familiar with them, and will be happy to talk to their uncles and aunts. After all, children are still eager for adult recognition.
Second, encourage children to have confidence.
Some children tend to be shy, which is actually a sign of their lack of confidence. They may be afraid of being accused of low ability or something, so they take the way of avoiding it. This kind of psychology is not uncommon. Parents should encourage their children to have confidence in the process of education, and at the same time let them have a kind and positive attitude towards the world and life. Don't let your children stay in the ivory tower all the time, which is not conducive to their personality growth.
Third, don't pull out the seedlings to encourage them.
Parents should be patient with their children's education and give them more room to grow up. Don't treat their children's shy behavior as a mistake. On the contrary, treat them with a normal heart and don't label them in front of their children. You know, the sign will be deeply embedded in his heart.
Summary: Give children more positive guidance and tell stories that children like to hear. Then parents can use this psychology to let their children know that telling stories can easily make them more popular. Parents can collect some such stories and tell them more to their children, so that they can gradually overcome the shy habit.
What should children do if they are introverted?
As children grow up, many parents find that their children become introverted and timid, unwilling to play with children of the same age. When they meet unfamiliar elders, they will not only take the initiative to say hello, but also timidly hide behind their parents. Many parents don't know what to do about their children's introversion and timidity. Here, Xiao Min shares some educational methods and skills for introverted children.
Don't treat children differently.
When children are introverted and timid, as parents, don't feel distressed and depressed, think that their children are different from other cheerful children, or think that their children have problems, and then treat them differently. To know that the development of children's personality is related to the surrounding environment, children will be particularly sensitive. You can feel these subtle changes from parents' words and deeds, so don't worry when you find your child introverted and timid, because most children will have this situation when they grow up. As long as effective guidance and education are provided, this state will be improved.
As parents, we should also observe our children carefully and find out the reasons for their introversion, whether they are scared by something, bullied by their peers or caused by their parents' negligence. It is important to know these reasons, and we can find ways and ideas to solve the problem through these reasons.
It takes patience to educate children.
It takes a long time for children to develop this introverted and timid character. Then, if you want to guide and educate your children, don't rush for success, but you need to do it step by step. As a parent, you need to be patient in this process.
Give your child affirmation from time to time.
Most introverted children come from inner self-distrust. Although we can't say inferiority, we don't know what inferiority is, but this kind of self-distrust often affects children's various behaviors. At this time, parents need to always give their children affirmation and praise to improve their self-confidence.
Encourage and help children develop their interests.
If children have any hobbies and interests, they can help them cultivate these interests. For example, children like painting, and parents can buy materials and materials for their children to paint. Of course, parents can also participate in painting with their children and gradually dilute some unfavorable factors from their interests.
Give children a sense of security.
Many times, children's self-confidence and introversion come from inner insecurity. For example, their parents are often absent, they don't care enough about their children, or they often ignore some of their needs. In view of this situation, parents should also learn to adjust, try to balance work and family, and give their children more relationships and care.
Guide children with cartoons and stories
Many children don't want to play with their peers, but prefer to play mobile games or watch cartoons by themselves. If so, parents should not think that it is not good for their children to watch cartoons often. They should learn about these cartoons by themselves, find some good and positive cartoons to show their children, guide them from them, and let them learn to be strong like the protagonists in cartoons. At the same time, they can also tell some such stories to their children, so that they can learn to grow up imperceptibly.
Choose a playable partner for your child.
It is also important to play with children's companions, because some children will have many selfish and powerful habits when they are young, and they are unwilling to give their toys to others or rob others' toys. If their children are a little introverted, they will still play with such children. After being bullied by other children, they are definitely more reluctant to play with children of the same age, but become more introverted. Therefore, it is very important to choose suitable companions for children in early childhood, and you can find some sensible ones.