Many children take their parents' devotion and love for granted and don't need gratitude and return. Lack of gratitude to parents is an important reason for children's disobedience. In my opinion, it is necessary for children to feel the dedication and love of their parents, and it is necessary to cultivate their sense of gratitude.
2. Combine leniency with severity to cultivate children's sense of responsibility.
Parents should deal with the relationship between strict requirements and relaxed environment, strict process and tolerant results. Tolerance is the trust in children and gives them confidence and courage; Strict requirements are to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, which is conducive to cultivating children's good habits of being strict with themselves from beginning to end.
3. Communicate democratically and equally, and cultivate children's sense of independence.
Parents should respect their children's self-esteem and support them as much as possible, especially when they encounter difficulties and failures, communicate with them equally, help them analyze things, distinguish right from wrong and handle them correctly.
4. Help children know themselves and build their core competitiveness.
The new educational concept holds that "everyone is talented, but no one is all-rounder, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and everyone is successful". The purpose of education is to make children become useful people, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the only way to become useful people.