1. The most fundamental thing is to stimulate children's self-motivation and curiosity.
2. Set an example: Parents should set an example for their children.
3. Persuasion is better than coercion: don't force children.
4. Correct the child's shortcomings by affirming the advantages.
5. Respect children and be their bosom friends.
6. Appreciate children properly: let children feel valued.
7. Moderate punishment: too much is not enough.
8. Gradually enhance children's self-management ability.