1. The most fundamental thing is to stimulate children's self-motivation and curiosity.

2. Set an example: Parents should set an example for their children.

3. Persuasion is better than coercion: don't force children.

4. Correct the child's shortcomings by affirming the advantages.

5. Respect children and be their bosom friends.

6. Appreciate children properly: let children feel valued.

7. Moderate punishment: too much is not enough.

8. Gradually enhance children's self-management ability.