"How come! She is very silent at home. "

"Your child is so quiet. Just talk more. "

"She talks a lot and chatters at home every day."

When parents sit together to discuss their children, or teachers describe their children's performance at school, many parents often show disapproval or disbelief. Parents sometimes even show that this is my child's doubt, because children at home and children at school are in the opposite state.

Why do children seek comfort at home and at school? Children, like adults, know their role in every scene or environment-children at home, students at school. Different environments bring different comfort to children, so they will find a kind of comfort to adapt themselves to the environment. Therefore, if children's different performances do not cause other problems, parents need not worry too much, but there should be little difference in such different performances.

Depressed family environment or harsh family education. Children are taciturn at home and naughty at school. Parents should pay attention to such a huge contrast. If the school is too loose for the children compared with the family, then the children will use their time at school to indulge themselves, do things that they usually dare not do, and even ignore the rules and release their inner repression.

Whether to establish reasonable family rules to restrain children. Children are naughty at home, but clever at school? Children know that they should abide by school rules at school, and teachers will also educate children to abide by school rules. On the contrary, if there are no corresponding rules at home, then children will think that they are "little bullies" and do whatever they want, and they are also prone to bad personalities such as "princess disease" and "blx". In this case, the elderly usually take care of the children. After all, the old man loves his grandson very much.

It can be seen that the state of children at home is different from that at school, and the concept of family education plays a key role, so it is very important to do a good job in family education.

Do a good job in family education from these three points, respect the rules and set an example!

Parents are the best teachers for children, and many habits of children are learned from their parents. Therefore, to do a good job in family education, the first thing is to set a good example for children and tell them what they can and can't do. The formulation and implementation of family rules should also be practical. Occasionally, we should discuss it with the older generation. The success of family rules depends on everyone. Educating children is not only the responsibility and obligation of parents, but also the joint efforts of family members. It can often be seen on TV or magazines that because of their indulgence, the old people have developed the bad habit of "begging with their mouths open and reaching for clothes". No matter how much he regretted it, the old man never started again.

2. Comfort of family environment and family education.

Children spend most of their time at home, creating a comfortable family environment-a harmonious, happy and relaxed atmosphere. Occasionally, you can put some plants at home or take a walk with your child, which is good for your child's physical and mental health. Family education suitable for children is good for their growth. Too strict and too loose will make children feel resistant and tired.

3. Communication is very important.

Parents will communicate with different people, such as customers, friends and relatives, but they often forget to communicate with their children, so when their children have problems, some parents will start to shirk. In fact, it only takes five points to communicate with children: a little time, a little patience, a little smile, a little encouragement and a little sharing, and you will know what children are thinking, what children need and what children may do. You won't be surprised by the different states of children, because children will have no reservations in front of you. Of course, communication with teachers is also very important. Teachers can see the changes of students, from which you can know the friendship and learning status of children. When the children come home, you can pass a cup of yogurt.

Conclusion Children are growing up and will face family, school and society in different states. A good family education concept will make children have a calm and confident attitude when facing different environments. Even if it is not as good as imagined, the family education concept from childhood will not make him lose himself! Parents! Come on!