If only on the level of truth, as long as a normal person feels that children should be provided with as feasible educational methods as possible. This consensus is almost as common as studying hard to get into a good university. The problem is that even with this consensus, most people still don't study hard.

I learned a lot about the cases around me, and summarized these situations roughly. In order to facilitate the "imaginary parents" who have no children to understand the parent-child relationship, each type takes love relationship as an example.

Busy work is the main reason why many families can't educate their children as expected. There is a lot of social work, and the time is not fixed or longer than you think, which makes it impossible to accompany children.

There are many such workers around us. Think about the vendors, taxi drivers, building decoration workers, sanitation workers, take-away workers and so on. They work more than 8 hours and lack time with their children. There are a large number of migrant workers in the city, and their children can only stay in their hometown. The problem is not only the time together, but also their absence. You can only choose one multiple-choice question for work and education.

It's like although you know that spending more time with your boyfriend can enhance your feelings, this opportunity to study abroad is very rare. I can only make a choice between studying abroad and feeling, then choose a different place, and then there is no more. ...

Physical health is definitely more important than education. Who cares about education when health is in question?

From a broader perspective, as long as one person in a family is seriously ill, even if the sick person is not a child, the whole family will be in grief and busy, and there is no time and mood to think too much about education.

It's like you and your boyfriend have made a long-term plan to travel around the world and go to a country every year. Later, his family got uremia and had dialysis every month. He is in no mood or time to travel. ...

Look at the rising divorce rate in China. There are still many contradictions but no divorce. The stability of family relationship is the foundation of education, but in fact at least half of the couples are not harmonious. Imagine that two people are getting divorced. Do they still have time to educate their children?

Education is not only an idea, but also a lot to do. This is definitely a long-lasting process like sprinting for the college entrance examination, day after day, and we can't slack off for a moment. Not every parent can maintain such self-discipline.

In the face of children, most parents have memories of being unable to control their emotions. To put it mildly, they hate iron not to produce. When the mood comes, how can you care about the rational consideration before? The key is the interaction with children. Many parents are in a state of completely uncontrollable children.

Children don't listen to you. How do you carry out your grand education plan?

Just like you made an appointment with your boyfriend not to quarrel, even if there is a quarrel, you should solve the problem on the same day and never put it off until the next day. Later, he quarreled with you on the phone when he was on a business trip, and then hacked you for three days. You feel powerless. ...

Usually we get much more information than we can get. Once you have a child, there will be countless things to do around the child, and parents and friends around you will also make various suggestions. You will find that countless commercial advertisements pop up around you inexplicably. In this case, many parents can't form the same educational concept and are always involved by different forces. The energy and time of oneself and children are limited.

It's like you've figured out what you'll do if you meet a boy you like, and you've almost made the best plan. But that day has finally come, you can't choose between the two boys, and you don't know who you like best. ...

Lack here refers to the lack of knowledge. Many parents do not have enough knowledge and confidence to educate their children independently. After all, not everyone is a doctor. The ocean of knowledge is boundless. Even doctors are good at something, and they may not be able to guide their children in every subject by themselves.

The above statement seems to be the reason why many parents can't do rational education for various objective reasons. This does not mean that their educational ideas are not good enough.

There is a good saying: if a person doesn't live the way he wants, one day he will think according to his own way of life.

People's thoughts and practices are inseparable for a long time. Imagine that if you always think A is right, then you must always do B in your behavior. Do you think this state is sustainable? And the easiest way is to make yourself feel that B is right. The proverb is also called: the position determines the thought, and the ass determines the head.

If a person can't teach his children well, he can find 100 reasons to convince himself that stocking is the best choice.