What if children have hatred for their parents? 1, communicate with children more, understand the reasons why children hate their parents, and then take correct measures. If the child's wishes are not satisfied by his parents, then it is necessary to analyze the reasons and set reasonable goals, and he has achieved them, rewarding him in a satisfactory way and explaining the reasons unreasonably.
2. Learn to listen to your child patiently and let him express his ideas. Allow yourself the patience to listen to your child speak his mind. No matter what you think, you should be patient, control your emotions and guide your children patiently.
3. Learn to respect and trust children and give them more encouragement and support. Parents' encouragement and affirmation, patience and acceptance, emotional support and companionship will help children rebuild their inner sense of security and trust!
4. Give your child more love, gentle tone, warm movements, and often pamper him and let him feel love.
5. Communicate with children more, and don't talk about academic performance every time, which will put pressure on children unless they really get the first place in every exam.
6. Parents should not be too autocratic. Our parents must first learn to listen to their children and learn to communicate with them. We must make them open their hearts and express their feelings. We can chat with children every day to understand their thoughts, so as to better grasp their situation.
7. Don't always blame your children. As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and no one can say that he won't make mistakes, especially children, who are in the stage of rapid learning. Sometimes it is inevitable to do badly in the exam, but it is not necessarily so good. This is why our parents should not only blame their children for their shortcomings. Your criticism may stifle their active learning.
Parents don't want their children to nag, because no one can tolerate nagging all day like Tangshan. In fact, children are no exception. Children don't like their parents who have nothing to do with his nonsense, or talk in front of her regardless of big or small issues. Don't mention some small mistakes or small temper of children over and over again, because parents who nag their children are so annoying, especially adolescent children, so our parents must remember not to nag their children too much.
9. Parents should do more introspection. Parents have a wide social circle, while children have a narrow social circle. The average child will not easily resent the only person closest to him in the world. Of course, once they dislike you, they should think about what they did badly.