Don't scold, don't cheat children. Nowadays, the form of parents cultivating their children is very simple and direct. When children make mistakes or cry, they don't immediately scold or cheat them, and they never communicate with their babies seriously. It is true that the actual effect of beating, cursing and deceiving children is very quick, and children will stop making trouble immediately, but this is only a temporary practical effect after all, and children will continue to make the same mistakes next time. Children will also have extreme temperament, either confident and timid, or irritable.
Know how to observe the mentality of others. If a child can know how to observe other people's emotional changes, that is, look at their faces, then his emotional intelligence will certainly not be low. One definition of EQ is to observe and control one's ability to work. When others are angry, they come uninvited. Praise others moderately when they are happy.
The most important thing is to see if the child has a sense of responsibility. When a problem is difficult, children will immediately cry to their parents or try to deal with it alone first. If you try to solve the difficulties yourself first, children will have a strong sense of responsibility and develop faster. Confidence is very important. Self-confidence is the basis of emotional intelligence and IQ. A confident child will be cheerful and active. Many parents complain when their children make mistakes, such as "Oh, don't make that mistake again next time. Remember to be careful not to be impetuous in Mao Mao." This is also a personal behavior that greatly suppresses children's self-confidence.
Parents don't have to deny and evaluate their children's personal behavior according to their own objective ideas, nor do they have to try to impose their own ideas on their children and stipulate changes. Let children discover their own personal advantages and specialties, which will greatly improve their self-confidence. Make more friends, improve the ability to get along with others, and educate children to make more friends and treat others sincerely. People who are good at cooperation and sharing will get more and more help and support.
People who have no friends can't feel the joy of life. Educating children to get rid of themselves and know more about some good friends can train their interpersonal skills. This is definitely a big capital for the baby in the future. Only by learning to get along with others can you know how to get along with others. Educate children to be alone and improve their adaptability. Many children live in a state of understanding for a long time, and it is difficult to integrate into the strange natural environment.
Parents should help their babies improve their adaptability and integrate into unfamiliar things. There has always been a popular word to describe this: to get rid of the "comfort zone", children need to learn to be independent, get out of the comfort zone, and integrate into things they don't understand. In this way, when the baby grows up, it will be easier to blend in with everyone's strangers and addresses and give them to new good friends.