At this time, children's psychology will usually enter a rebellious stage, so parents should provide targeted counseling, especially in terms of methods, they must pay attention to strategy, effect, respect and understanding.

Specific method: 1, avoid the important and make careful preparation. That is to say, talk less about small and unimportant issues. If we really want to talk about it, we should start with some big bad phenomena in society or life, and then guide children to analyze the internal causes and relationships through the phenomena, fully mobilize their subjective initiative, and carry out family education by letting children find their own answers or parents and children discuss problems together.

2, point to the end, enrich the content. At this stage, children have strong self-esteem and self-confidence. As parents, first, we should protect children's self-esteem, self-confidence and curiosity, and point out what their children have done wrong, but we should stop there. The second is to enrich the content of children's social discussion and help children broaden their thinking.

3. Use children's curiosity about society to help children adjust their knowledge structure predictably.

Use its pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty to improve its appreciation level and ability of the things it cares about.

5. Teach some skills or skills in life in a timely and appropriate manner, learn and make friends, and always lead children forward instead of pushing them forward!