Punishment should have love. The way of education is not unique, gentle rain is love, stormy weather is love, but this kind of love should be understood by students. In this respect, Mr. Cai, a teacher in Wei Wei, is a master, so many years later, Wei Wei recalled that when Mr. Cai was disciplining students, he wrote: "Only once, her pointer seemed to have dropped. I greeted it with a slate, and the pointer tapped on the edge of the slate, and everyone laughed, and she also smiled ... "This passage is beautiful and reminds students of this punishment. I think this is not only because of punishment, but also because of the love behind punishment. Therefore, in order to implement punishment, students should understand the reasons why teachers do this, just like writing a composition. For example, let everyone read Bi Shumin's essay "Why I Hit You". When students understand that punishment is also a way of love, they can fully understand the sentence "hitting hurts, scolding is love", and they will not blindly refuse the teacher's punishment. Or, we can have a heart-to-heart talk with students after punishing them, and strive to be both hard and soft, so that they can not only realize their mistakes, but also realize the teacher's "deep hatred" and prevent them from hiding their grievances in their hearts. Of course, the premise of doing all this is that there is life in the heart and love in the heart. So I usually use the time between classes to talk to students, and also use my composition book to communicate with students. I also buy local specialties for students when I am on a business trip. Gradually, the feelings between us are getting deeper and deeper, and we will be punished occasionally and will accept it calmly.
The punishment should be appropriate. Makarenko, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said that a reasonable punishment system is not only legal, but also necessary. A reasonable punishment system should be discussed with students, and a class convention should be made to make students accept punishment willingly, so as to be effective. For example, when a student uploads a note and eats in class, according to the agreement, I ask him to write a self-reflection of no less than 800 words, and put forward specific requirements: write a self-made topic, describe his psychological activities in detail, and think deeply and write his feelings on this basis. This is not only a punishment, but also gives students time and space to think, and at the same time allows him to practice writing and improve his writing level. Really received a wonderful self-reflection. "From today on, I will listen carefully, do my homework, take part in physical exercise, and stop making teachers worry about us." Starting today, I will learn to grow up by myself ... "
The punishment should be appropriate. Reasonable punishment can exercise students' will and personality and cultivate students' ability to resist and overcome temptation. However, punishment should not be abused and students' mistakes should be graded. If in class, students make small moves, and we can make them lower their heads with one look, then there is no need to punish them; If students forget their homework only occasionally, they can make it up in time. But if he lies or participates in school bullying, he should be severely punished, so that he can learn a lesson when he takes the first step, so that he won't make more serious mistakes.
Just as young trees sometimes need pruning and binding during their growth, children's growth should also be punished appropriately.