Anyone who becomes a parent has a deep understanding that raising a child requires not only enough time and energy, patience and love, but also economic expenses. As soon as a child is born, the daily living expenses, tuition fees for early education classes, extra-long classes and school choice seem to be inseparable from one word-money.
We know that you can't accumulate an excellent child with only money, but you can't get rid of the topic of money when you train children. Therefore, it is necessary to invest in children's education, but is it true that the more investment in education, the better? Not necessarily, wise parents [Weibo] all know that spending limited money on the most worthwhile places can get twice the result with half the effort.
Education investment is necessary, but we should pay attention to the following aspects when investing.
Pay attention to the choice of investment in study.
"No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education." Parents deeply know the meaning of this sentence, so it is not a pity to invest in their children's study without thinking, or even spend all their money. In fact, many times some investments are unnecessary, and even the result after investment is not as good as not investing.
Many parents have a strong herd mentality, even a little blind. Today, I know what other children have learned and which teacher they have found. Tomorrow, my own children must follow closely. Other people learn dance, so does his children. Other children learn Go, and he forces them to take Go lessons, which is probably a little behind others.
In fact, each child's hobbies are different, and his personality and temperament are different, so it is impossible to cultivate completely according to a model. Parents give their children special classes just to spread the seeds widely. In case their children develop, they can do anything. However, that's not how majors are learned. Parents should patiently observe their children's development direction in their daily life study, and then study in a targeted way, so as to stimulate their interest and get good results.
If you don't understand that children have no purpose to enroll in various special classes, because children are not interested, they will be bored for a long time, and even have rebellious psychology and refuse to learn. At that time, parents will be thankless, the time and money invested will be wasted, and even the harmonious parent-child relationship will be affected, which is not worth the candle.