Parents in daily life always like to educate their children with some poisonous chicken soup. Whose children get good grades, whose children are smart and obedient, whose children eat more, and even whose children get up early. Anyway, in the mouth of parents, their children are always inferior to others' children.
There is no difference between good and bad children, but parents' comments will make them feel bad. For children, everything they do is just an attempt to explore the world. If they taste the sweetness in the attempt, they may continue in the future. If they suffer losses, they may correct them later, but this is not the reason why parents compare their children.
Perhaps in the world of children, parents' inculcation is like a warm current, which can warm children and make them grow up. The comparative education of parents, like pouring rain, can make children grow up, but it may leave a shadow and even make children feel inferior.
Every family has different ways of education, but they should have enough respect for their children. Children actually have a lot of self-esteem. When you reprimand or even beat children in public, their self-esteem is being seriously hurt. When you constantly compare your child's shortcomings with other children's strengths in family education, children will feel that they are useless.
Perhaps parents' education will help children correct some bad habits in a short time, but in the long run, children's hearts will become particularly sensitive and fragile.
Every parent wants their children to grow up healthily and happily, but in the end, every family is making a choice, whether to give their children a strict education or a loose education. Anyway, please don't compare your children with others. Your child is the most special one. You have to believe that.
I hope my children can grow up healthily, and I will pay attention to giving them enough respect and encouragement in my later life.