1, children don't need to be too smart and too sharp-edged. I don't think that's a good thing; The key is to cultivate good habits;

2, the environment is very important, you have to do it right.

3, don't easily form a bad habit, so you will find that the time to correct a bad habit will be twice or three times that of forming a habit; Don't introduce new bad habits to children because of short-term interests. For example, because children don't eat, turn on the TV for children to watch, so as to achieve the purpose of feeding more.

4. Respect children and get used to empathy;

5. Tell the truth. When you find that some truths may not be effective, pay attention to your speaking skills. You'd rather say half, say diplomatic words, and don't tell lies.

6. Say what children can understand. A mother who is used to reasoning should be concise and avoid being like Tang Priest.

7. Educate children to pay attention to skills, step by step, don't eat fat, and step by step; Understand the characteristics of children now, and don't encourage them.

8. Have the foresight to know that doing so may cause children's strong resistance and compromise with themselves, so don't interfere with children, otherwise the final result will only be worse and not better.