First, I often educate my children in the wrong way, but I am too strict with my children, forcing them to do things they don't like and trying to make them excellent in this way, but this behavior can easily lead to mental illness and social antipathy. Many parents think that their children are still young and don't need respect, so they make decisions and choices for their children and ask them to implement them according to their own choices. This kind of behavior is also easy to affect their healthy growth.
Second, the impact on children Some parents don't believe in children's problems when they grow up. They always suspect that children don't study when they are not at home and do bad things behind their backs. This is a very bad phenomenon. Moreover, some children do the right thing, and some parents are afraid that their children will be proud and will not praise them. However, attacking them too much will also affect their psychology. It is easy for some parents to have a bad habit, that is, to compare their children with other people's children, and always compare their children's shortcomings with other people's children's advantages. Such comparison for a long time will make children feel inferior and lose self-confidence.
Third, accompany children to grow up together. Some parents are tired from work. When they get home, they will borrow some small problems and get angry with their children. This is a very bad behavior. When facing children, parents should keep their promises, but many parents can't do what they promised in front of their children, which will make them particularly disappointed. And some parents will especially spoil their children. There is nothing wrong with wanting the best for children, but it is not blindly doting and compromising, which will make children develop bad habits. Companionship is the best gift for children. Growing up with children is happiness, experience and obligation.