Be the king of the children.
Every child is born with unique leadership, which is their innate ability. We need to encourage children to work hard to be monitor, or at least cultivate their ability to lead monitor, so that they can learn how to influence others, how to deal with challenges and how to face failure.
Competition and challenge
All benefits are obtained through competition, and the foundation of success is to surpass the opponent. In competitive activities, such as go, chess and military chess, children can learn how to compete with their opponents, how to formulate strategies and how to bear failure. We should guide children to realize that there are many possibilities behind everything, not a single concept of right and wrong.
Independent thinking
As parents, we should not let our children blindly listen to our opinions. We should encourage them to think independently and dare to try, so that they can constantly explore and discover their potential and advantages in the process of growth.