When I was a child, my parents' aggressive education had a series of influences on me, including inferiority, lack of self-confidence, fear of making mistakes, anxiety and procrastination, and difficulties in interpersonal relationships. However, I also learned the important value of tenacity and self-reflection. By realizing these influences, I am trying to change myself and treat life and others more positively.

Inferiority and lack of self-confidence

I think this kind of education has made me feel inferior and lack self-confidence. Because I am often scolded and beaten by my parents, I feel that I can't meet their expectations, which leads to self-doubt and depression.

Fear of making mistakes.

This kind of education also makes me afraid of making mistakes. Because once I make a mistake, I will be scolded and punished by my parents. I will become very cautious, afraid to try new things and challenge myself. This brought me a lot of anxiety and procrastination, because I was afraid of failure.

Interpersonal difficulties

This influence on education also affects my relationship with others. I have become difficult to trust others and accept criticism from others, because I am used to being suppressed and accused by my parents. This makes it difficult for me to communicate with others, and it is easy to produce conflict and alienation.

Self-reflection and efforts to improve

Although this kind of education has brought many negative effects, I believe it has taught me something important. It has cultivated my tenacity in the face of difficulties and setbacks, and made me stronger and more determined. I also learned to reflect on myself, strive to improve myself, and learn from it when I fail.