2. Listen correctly. When the child is talking to you, stop what you are doing at once, listen to him carefully and don't interrupt. After listening, summarize and confirm whether there are any misunderstandings.

3. Ask questions correctly. When a child lies to you, you must not listen to the truth. People tend to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. It's unlucky to tell the truth. Who will tell the truth? The attitude of inquiry is to help him, not to interrogate him. Remove his psychological defense. Whatever you say, keep his secret.

4. Talk empathetically. Why do some children prefer to talk to others rather than their parents? There must be something wrong with the way parents talk. When chatting with anyone, you must express your understanding and empathy for the other person's emotions, rather than analyzing right and wrong. Everyone has the ability to solve problems by himself, as long as you sympathize with him and give him strength.