Find out what true love is. Love is science. Without scientific love for children, blindly soaking children in sugar water is not true love. In addition, if parents have different opinions when educating their children, they can communicate privately and reach an agreement. Don't blush in front of their children.

2. Be good at cultivating children's initiative and independence.

In family life, parents should pay attention to educating their children to adjust their behavior consciously, actively and independently, instead of relying on their parents' supervision and management for everything. It is necessary to educate children to be clear about the purpose and tasks of their activities, and gradually cultivate children to learn self-study plans and check their own studies and activities. Parents cannot replace them. Because children's self-regulation and behavior control ability in primary school is still very poor, it is not enough to educate children to be independent by reasoning. Only by combining abstract truth with concrete and vivid facts can we achieve good results.

3. Let children participate in labor, especially service labor.

Children should be allowed to take part in self-help labor and learn to take care of their own lives, such as dressing, tying shoelaces, combing their hair, washing their faces, eating, tidying their schoolbags and cleaning their rooms. Parents try not to do it for their children. Parents should also let their children often take part in some housework, such as helping their parents wash vegetables, buy things and clean up. This is an effective means to cultivate children's ability to deal with life.

Parents should set an example for their children.

Because primary school students' self-judgment ability is still very limited, they like to imitate other people's behavior, regardless of whether a certain behavior is correct or appropriate. Therefore, parents should set a good example for their children, lead by example, teach by example, keep their homes clean and tidy, and act independently and neatly. In this way, they will set an example for their children to learn, and children will gradually develop the habit of taking care of themselves in a subtle way.

Sooner or later, children will leave their parents and live independently. It is the duty and responsibility of parents to cultivate children's independent consciousness and self-care ability from an early age. Of course, the cultivation of children's self-care ability should not be rushed, but should be gradual. With the growth of children's age, we should gradually put forward higher requirements that children can do, and don't let children do things they can't do.