Editor Zhang Ma

I believe every parent hopes that their children can study hard and get ahead in the future. They don't want their children to be rich or expensive, but want their children to have a happy family.

CCTV's name is white, and I believe everyone is familiar with him. Besides being an excellent host, he is also a father who knows what children want and need. His educational principles for children are different from those of other parents. What he does is to respect children's choices and let them know that parents are not screenwriters of children's lives, but more like audiences of children's lives. Many things need children to understand themselves. He is just a support behind the child.

Bai is worried that children will enter the examination room with pressure. He once jokingly said to the child, "If you dare to be the first in the exam, I will dare to sever the father-son relationship with you!" "

Indeed, life is not a competition, and there is no need to take the first as an "obsession" to compete. You know, the person who wins the first place is not necessarily the final winner, and winning the first place every time is only a temporary scenery. Those children who strive for the first place often stare at their opponents, and even some children are too persistent and will use some inappropriate means.

Maybe you have won every battle in your life, but in the dead of night, why not let yourself be shocked by one wound after another? Why should the first place be the only meaning of life? Each of us, the biggest enemy is only ourselves.

Bai, like the advocate professor of "spiritual education", cares more about children's spiritual growth and their nature. He hopes that children will not be imprisoned by their current small achievements and live happily according to their own lifestyle. He pays more attention to cultivating some qualities of children than their scores.

It may be expensive to be quiet and peaceful, but if children learn tolerance, they can have the ability to spend at will. Tolerance can make you easy-going and make you look down on many things that you originally valued.

Tolerance can also make children wake up from a happy mood in every peaceful and quiet morning, even if there are fierce conflicts and great unhappiness.

Bai Yan Song told Bai Qingyang a word: Tolerance can comfort yourself and relax others. The biggest feature of tolerance is to let you put love first in life, and you will gain a lifetime smile.

In this fast-paced society, many people have already become anxious, even forgetting the word "cherish", swearing when encountering problems, and completely ignoring each other's feelings.

Bai believes that the classmate friendship in the student days is the purest friendship in a person's life, and this kind of friendship without interests can often accompany children for life.

Let children learn to cherish themselves, cherish time, cherish precious people or things, cherish social circles and understand the meaning of these things. As long as their existence is not wasted, then children will learn to cherish when they are hungry.

Perhaps in the eyes of parents, "extracurricular books" and "wasting time" are equivalent, but have you ever thought that every social elite has one thing in common: love reading, love reading!

The most important thing in reading is not what knowledge you get from it, but more importantly, let the children have fun in the book. Reading can be the driving force of life and the coordinate when we look back.

When we are reading, we can find that it is different from other forms of entertainment while enjoying happiness. Our hearts are full, and our reading time is not wasted.

When we educate our children, one of the most common mistakes we make and ignore is to measure them with the marks of adults and convince them with the truth that adults understand.

In fact, self-discipline is anti-human, and children are not born to love learning. No child wants to sit at a desk and study every day. You can't make a child understand the meaning of learning and what benefits self-discipline can bring to her.

Self-discipline needs to be exercised or even "forced" to develop, and inertia needs to be stripped from the body again and again. The best way to treat children is to accompany her, experience breakthroughs again and again, and watch her succeed again and again.