1, respect children. Parents should not always stare at their children's weaknesses, and compare their children's shortcomings with other children's strengths. Usually, you can communicate with your children more and sort out their thoughts. Then you can put forward your own opinions. As a teacher or parent, you can't put pressure on your students to make them understand the truth. If you can't discipline children, you can send them to some special training places for them to train.

2, face up to the child's rebellious psychology, not biased. If you encounter a child's rebellious mentality, you must be aware that this is a normal phenomenon. Parents should be good at discovering the creative quality and pioneering consciousness in rebellious psychology and guiding them reasonably. As long as it is properly guided, rebellious psychology can play a positive role in modern society.

3. empathy. Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, so in the face of children's inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.

4. Master the correct communication methods and guide children out of the incorrect range. Children in the rebellious period often show cynicism and feel that this environment and society do not belong to them. They always show that their parents and family members don't understand, such as dyeing their hair in various colors and saying things that only their peers can understand.

5. Be more patient with children and be more tolerant and understanding of their behavior. Rebellious children often disappoint adults, because they will show all the family rules and school rules, because they think they have grown up and have their own ideas and opinions.