1. Overcontrol: Parents control their children's behavior, study and hobbies too much, and it seems that there is no room for their children to be free.

2. Overindulgence: Parents are too tolerant of their children, accommodating their wishes and unwilling to let them experience the bitterness and challenges of life.

3. Violence education: Parents degrade or humiliate their children with corporal punishment or bad words, which brings mental harm to children.

4. Ignoring education: treating children carelessly, ignoring their emotional needs and interest in learning, thus alienating the relationship with children.

5. Learning and education: Parents pay too much attention to the pursuit of children's academic performance, while ignoring their social skills and emotional development.

6. Comparative education: Parents pay too much attention to the success of family education and force their children to imitate other children, while ignoring their personality and characteristics.

7. Pursuing honor education: When educating children, parents mainly pay attention to their superficial image and appearance, attach importance to their utilitarian value, and ignore their internal development needs.