1, omnibearing consciousness
Parents generally have herd mentality. They are used to seeing which school others choose, and we will choose whatever school others choose. What extra-curricular classes other children attend, their children will also attend. In fact, parents should choose the most suitable one for their children according to their actual situation, not the most famous one.
Parents need to demonstrate for their children.
In the process of cultivating children, parents want their babies to be smart and lovely, which requires parents to enlighten and guide them from an early age. It is very important for parents to learn some basic parenting knowledge. Children have lived with their parents for a long time, and they are deeply impressed by their parents' words and deeds and living habits, and keep them in mind. Over time, they will form certain stereotypes about their children.
Therefore, to cultivate children's good character and habits, parents must reflect on their own behavior habits, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and give children a good example. In the face of the shortcomings in the process of children's growth, parents should carefully observe, discover and persuade them in time, and guide their children to grow up healthily in the right way.
3. Seek the inner connection between things. Rote memorization is the most taboo, especially in science study. It is more important to find out the truth. Therefore, no matter what you learn, you should ask why. Knowledge gained in this way is like active water, including Kinomoto.
Even if you ask questions beyond the scope of middle school knowledge, even the teacher can't answer them, but it doesn't matter. It is important to have a thirst for knowledge and curiosity about everything, which is often an important way to cultivate our interest in learning. What's more important is to develop this kind of thinking habit, which is conducive to the training of thinking quality.
4, often communicate with junior high school children. Often have in-depth and formal conversations with children, help children to define their goals, list possible difficulties, analyze the importance of junior high school learning, encourage children more, and appropriately express their expectations as parents.
The education of children should be separated and talked as much as possible to avoid public condemnation. Teenagers have the most face, that is, strong self-esteem. Therefore, the education of children should be avoided in public, especially in front of his teachers and classmates.