Attention should be paid to the education and cultivation of children's interpersonal skills, self-confidence, exercise habits, positive thinking, personality and anti-frustration ability.

1. interpersonal skills: children with small social circles don't know how to communicate with their peers, and they are easily injured in interpersonal communication. Some children choose to close themselves to avoid injury, which leads to many psychological problems. When you grow up and enter the society, it is difficult to get along with the people around you, you can't have good contacts, and you will even be excluded, which is harmful to your career and family.

2. Self-confidence: It is very important for children to have self-confidence and it is also the basis of many things. Children without self-confidence will find it very difficult to do one thing. Compared with confident children, they need to spend more time and may not get good results. Therefore, we should encourage children more every day, give them confidence to express themselves, and gradually establish it to help them grow better.

3, exercise habits: Some children really love home, do not love sports, do not exercise, there will be no consumption, affect digestion and absorption, the body will be weaker. Exercise is conducive to the development of children's brain nerves, but also conducive to children's mental health and help children release negative emotions. Let children develop one or two exercise habits, so that children can benefit for life.

4. Think positively: Parents should set an example in their daily life. When encountering difficulties, don't escape passively, be optimistic and brave, focus on solving problems, work hard in a positive direction, and lead children.

5. Personality: A person's personality will affect the views of people around him on children. If it is a child with a violent family environment, then the child's personality must be very easy to lose his temper. If it is in a harmonious family, then the child's personality will be more docile and look more modest, so the mother should create a good environment, which is beneficial to the child's interpersonal communication in the future.

6. Anti-frustration ability: Children who have been spoiled since childhood and children who have not been accompanied by their parents with high quality since childhood have poor anti-frustration ability. When they encounter a little setback, they will shrink back, causing them to be unable to move forward and miss many opportunities in life in timidity.

Parents' training goals for their children

1. Health and happiness: Let children maintain a healthy body and a positive attitude, cultivate their hobbies and social skills, and let them grow up happily.

2. Learning and knowledge: encourage children to learn knowledge, develop their intelligence and creativity, and cultivate their interest and ability in learning.

3. Morality and character: Educate children with positive character and moral concepts to make them become people with social responsibility.

4. Independence: Encourage children to think and act independently, and cultivate their self-management ability and problem-solving ability.