Nowadays, the cost of living and education is increasing day by day. Many families can hardly afford two children or even one child. So families with twins are particularly difficult. After all, their palms are full of meat, and no one can bear to abandon them.

Xiao Lin has twin sons. After divorcing her husband, she stayed at home with her brother, and her ex-husband took her brother abroad. Originally, I wanted the two brothers to meet when they grew up several years ago, but for various reasons, it never came true, so it was delayed until the two brothers 18 years old.

When the two brothers really stood together, Kobayashi discovered that they had nothing in common except their looks. Not only temperament, personality, behavior habits are worlds apart. My brother looks outgoing and cheerful, but my brother is a little shy. At one time, he couldn't let go of playing with his brother.

Everyone is born a blank sheet of paper. Except for a few personality factors brought by genes, most of them are cultivated. So in reality, babies who grow up abroad are still very different from those who grow up in China.

1, cultural differences

Culture is the foundation of a nation's development. The general character of children will definitely be different with different culture and education. Just like the children in our country, they have been instilled with the knowledge of civility and courtesy since childhood, so they are deeply impressed by the courtesy of outsiders. The United States gives people the impression that it is warm and lively, while France is romantic and fashionable. Different national cultures are different, and the spirit engraved in children's bones is different.

So in comparison, children who grew up abroad are more imaginative and creative. They are confident and cheerful, and are keen on chatting with others. However, domestic children pay more attention to practical ability, and keep a proper distance when communicating with others, so as to make themselves comfortable and decent.

2. Differences in appearance

"one side of the soil and water will support one side." Under different geographical conditions, children's daily diet and living habits are different, so even their looks will be slightly different. For example, children who grow up abroad look whiter and taller. However, domestic children develop late, mostly with yellow skin. In addition, exercise and fitness will also have an impact on children's appearance, which will make children more energetic.

3. Personality differences

Two children who grew up in different places will have different personalities. Foreign children pay more attention to the cultivation of personal ability, communicate with outsiders from an early age, and play a greater role with their own talents. However, domestic children focus on exam-oriented education and are better at theoretical knowledge. Twins who grew up in this learning environment are obviously more fond of laughing and joking abroad, while domestic children are a little quiet and reserved.

Children grow up in different ways with different education. For children who leave their parents, what they lack most is the love from their parents. Therefore, capable parents should keep both brothers around, otherwise the growth resources of the two brothers are not equal, which will easily lead to conflicts between them, family discord and regret for their parents.