Tonga Hui's education mode adopts two-way guidance mode, which guides parents in the early stage, guides children in the later stage, puts forward a family, a set of solutions and solves problems in three steps.
The first step is to understand the family environment, children's personality characteristics and parents' education methods. The second step is to work out a solution. The third step is to stimulate children's internal drive, so that parents can be shopkeepers and stop worrying about their children's education.
At present, more than 350 million people in the world suffer from depression, and the number of people with pan-depression in China is close to 654.38+0 billion. Psychological and mental illness has seriously disturbed people's health and affected the harmony between family and society.
Especially for contemporary teenagers, family pressure and school pressure put a heavy burden on their children. Parents' high expectations and wrong educational methods are the main reasons for their depression.
Teacher Tong Jiahui believes that an anxious mother and an absent father will inevitably bring up a sick child.
Then, children are prone to depression. What should parents do?
Case study:
On March 2, 20021year, Ms. Sun contacted us through a friend's introduction, established contact with our analysts, and communicated the children's problems.
Sun's mother's child is currently in senior three. She once said that she didn't want to go to school, and her grades gradually declined. Her mother didn't know what was going on, and repeatedly criticized the child for not studying hard and being cold and violent.
Children don't get along well with classmates and teachers at school, and they don't feel the love of their parents at home. They gradually become reticent, often shut themselves in the house, don't communicate with anyone, and don't even want to eat.
Sun's mother realized the seriousness of her child's problem and took her child to see a psychologist. She was diagnosed as moderate depression by the doctor and needed psychological counseling.
In order to help children out of depression and make up for their mistakes, Ms. Sun found many well-known offline psychological counseling rooms, which were rejected by children.
Through the introduction of friends, Ms. Sun, who was anxious and collapsed, came into contact with an analyst of Tongahui's team and got a deep understanding of Tongahui's education law.
After many investigations and visits, parents recognized our educational philosophy and decided to sign experts to intervene and entrust our children to us.
Teacher Jin, an expert, quickly convened an expert forum after taking over the child's case to analyze the child's problems and create a set of targeted solutions for the child:
1: Parents change the way of education, close the relationship with their children, so that children will no longer reject their parents.
2. Relieve children's depression through parent-child interaction, give them love and companionship, and make them feel warm.
3. Experts intervene to help children master efficient learning methods, improve their academic performance and get out of depression.
After seeing the solution, parents agreed with it very much and began to actively cooperate with the teacher to make changes.
April 1 day Parents' feedback: After a month's guidance from the teacher, the child's depression was obviously relieved and he began to return to school. Parents seriously study the educational concept, realize their own educational deviation and reach a settlement with their children.
Children can successfully get rid of depression without the correct guidance of teachers and the active cooperation of parents. When children have psychological problems, the more parents do, the more mistakes they make. When children's problems are beyond their ability to solve, they must seek professional help.