First, how to deal with children hitting and biting people? 1. Keeping calm, controlling anger and fighting anger will only escalate the whole behavior. If you can't set a good example for your children, you shouldn't expect them to do the same. When the child is crazy, you need to keep calm and help the child calm down.
2. Stop children's behavior. When a child hits someone, you should look him firmly in the eye and say "no". Speak in a firm and gentle tone, without condemnation or scolding. This just shows that hitting people is wrong and absolutely intolerable.
Children are prone to aggressive behavior. 3. Give an exit When a child's anger can be suppressed, you need to help him find an exit to express his feelings. You can ask your child to count from 1 to 10, take a deep breath, or hit the pillow. In fact, this method also applies to you.
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It is useless to appreciate good behavior and just condemn bad behavior. You also need to recognize and appreciate children's good behavior. Appreciate and praise a child whenever he is calm and self-managing.
Another thing you need to pay attention to when observing children's behavior is, do people who interact with children have such behavior? Or are you unable to control your emotions? These are all things you need to pay attention to.
6. Persistence and firmness When you try to appease your child, the child may suddenly attack you. Only by maintaining a persistent and firm attitude can children's behavior problems be effectively solved.
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Second, why do children hit people and bite people? 1, the normal development process Generally speaking, it is normal for children to have such aggressive behavior, which is a necessary course in their development process. This kind of aggression will appear when the child is about 2 years old.
2. Imitate the behavior of others. Children learn by imitation, whether it is good behavior or bad behavior. Therefore, when a child has aggressive behavior, it may be that people around him have been violent, such as beating and cursing to punish his wrong behavior.
3. Express your emotions When things are not as good as your child's wishes, it is normal to have emotions. It's just that children don't know how to express their emotions, so they vent by hitting and biting.
It is undeniable that such behavior is really easy to attract parents' attention. If your child wants to get your attention, you'd better spend more time with him.