Parents may not realize that their children's thoughts and needs may be different from their own, and their views are just a guess. Parents may want to satisfy their children's expectations by letting them follow their own ideas, but this may not necessarily bring good results.
Parents may think their ideas are the best, because they used to do the same. This may lead parents to misunderstand their children's needs and ideas, and may lead children to feel helpless and not understood.
Parents may impose their own values on their children, which may be different from their own values. This imposed value may affect children's personal growth and interpersonal relationships, making it difficult for them to make independent and valuable choices.
Although it has certain educational value to impose your own ideas on children, it is the wrong way to be too restrictive and strict. We must find ways to establish good communication and trust with children to achieve educational goals.