1, to create an orderly living environment for the baby. Creating an orderly living environment for the baby is the premise of cultivating the baby's sense of order. An orderly living environment includes: first, regular work and rest. In daily life, mothers should arrange a scientific, reasonable and relatively fixed schedule for their babies and urge them to observe it, which is not only conducive to their healthy growth, but also lays a good foundation for the formation of their time concept and hierarchical order habits. Second, a clean and orderly family environment. Everything in the house should be put in order and put back after use. Mothers should also patiently cultivate their babies' skills of sorting things, encourage them to sort out their toys and books, and don't reprimand them even if they are "clumsy" and getting busy, but patiently guide and praise them. Third, a harmonious family atmosphere. Only when family members are harmonious, caring for each other, and children are orderly, can babies form a beautiful mentality of pursuing civilization and order.

2. Cultivate your baby's sense of order from small things. Mothers also need to pay attention to the details of daily life and cultivate their baby's sense of order from small things. For example, Tong Ma will let Bao Tong change his shoes and put them in order, so as to cultivate his life order through this humble habit. In addition, mothers should often take their babies to participate in group activities, so that their babies can form a sense of rules in the process of getting along with others. For example, when playing a slide on the playground, the mother should tell the baby to queue up consciously, first, then, don't push, don't squeeze.

3. Pay attention to the cultivation of the baby's sense of order in public places. Every public place has its own corresponding rules and regulations, which need everyone to consciously abide by. For example, when taking a bus, you should get off first and then get on, and be polite. Visit the park, don't climb flowers and trees and trample on the lawn; Watch movies, don't throw stones, make noise, etc. While setting an example, parents everywhere should also explain the relevant regulations to their babies, so that they can understand that there are species order rules in social life. It is glorious to obey them, but immoral to violate them.

In different periods of babies, there are different ways to train children to obey orders.

Second, the method of baby culture sequence in different periods 1. Try not to let others into the baby and mother's room during infancy. Let the baby have a full sense of security and maintain a simple interpersonal relationship for the baby. You will find that the baby cries less for no reason, because it relieves the baby's anxiety.

Mother had better take care of the baby by herself, not fake hands. The mother's fixed care makes the baby feel very satisfied. This is because the baby is already familiar with the mother's voice and life rhythm in the fetal period. Maintaining the intimate relationship between the baby and the mother is the basis for establishing good interpersonal relationships in the future.

Don't move things in the room at will. This is in line with the psychological needs of children eager to build trust from the external order in the new environment. In particular, the objects on the crib should be placed completely, and even the positions should be kept as consistent as possible.

Insist that children play with one toy at a time. Many parents like to take out some toys for their babies to play with, but mothers find that playing with them will soon make their babies bored. In fact, parents can let their children play with only one toy at a time, so that they can concentrate on one thing at a time, cultivate their attention, and guide their babies to put the toys away before playing with another toy.

Set aside time for children to collect toys. The baby was concentrating on building blocks, and then the mother shouted "eat", put away the baby's toys and told the baby to wash his hands quickly. Instead of helping the baby pack his toys in a hurry, it is better to set aside time for him to develop the habit of packing himself. Before meals or ten minutes before going out, parents can remind their babies to put away their toys. If parents take the initiative to arrange things, it will only make the baby gradually develop an attitude of giving up.

3. The peak of the sensitive period of order is between 2 and 4 years old. At this time, they are very strict with themselves, the environment and their peers. If we prepare an orderly environment for them and introduce their positions one by one, they will certainly abide by it.

At this stage, parents can teach their babies some life norms and daily etiquette, and cultivate their self-discipline ability in order to adapt to social norms in the future. For example, mothers can ask their children to wash their hands before eating, then dry them with towels, and then take their own dishes to their seats and put them away. If you persist for a long time, this series of actions will form a psychological order before meals and cultivate children's good living habits and sense of planning.

Parents should cultivate their children's habit of obeying order from an early age, and learning to obey order has a great influence on their baby's life.